"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have trouble thinking of things to say even when I'm relaxed

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I've noticed I have trouble thinking of things to say even when I'm relaxed. I do this with men and women. I'm a very pattern-oriented person, so if nothing's been approved by my mind beforehand, I'm probably not going to say it.
So what do i need to do to never run out of things to say, especially to women and strangers?
In the past, all I've had to say to women, was "Hey, what's up?" and try to elaborate from there, which usually didn't work.
Thanks to the DJ Bible, I've added "What's your name and where are you from?" to my arsenal with women. I have trouble making instant decisions and thinking on the fly socially, so I want to get better at this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When I'm first getting to know a woman I'll keep the conversation mostly light hearted and funny but with a little seriousness in there too. This is a very random example of a hb I talked to a few months ago:

HB: what do you do for a living?

Lefty: I'm an underwear model with Kelvin Klein . what do you do?

HB: Haha I work for Acme Company in Human Resources

Lefty: ahh, the the sexual harassment police. I'd be in your office all the time for showing the latest underwear to the wrong coworker

Hb: you need HR to look at them first!
 
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The more I let the b*tch talk about herself (with the occasional DHV comment or short story from me), the more she seems to like me.
 
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