"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have trouble thinking of things to say even when I'm relaxed

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DJDeMarco

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I've noticed I have trouble thinking of things to say even when I'm relaxed. I do this with men and women. I'm a very pattern-oriented person, so if nothing's been approved by my mind beforehand, I'm probably not going to say it.
So what do i need to do to never run out of things to say, especially to women and strangers?
In the past, all I've had to say to women, was "Hey, what's up?" and try to elaborate from there, which usually didn't work.
Thanks to the DJ Bible, I've added "What's your name and where are you from?" to my arsenal with women. I have trouble making instant decisions and thinking on the fly socially, so I want to get better at this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I'm first getting to know a woman I'll keep the conversation mostly light hearted and funny but with a little seriousness in there too. This is a very random example of a hb I talked to a few months ago:

HB: what do you do for a living?

Lefty: I'm an underwear model with Kelvin Klein . what do you do?

HB: Haha I work for Acme Company in Human Resources

Lefty: ahh, the the sexual harassment police. I'd be in your office all the time for showing the latest underwear to the wrong coworker

Hb: you need HR to look at them first!
 
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The more I let the b*tch talk about herself (with the occasional DHV comment or short story from me), the more she seems to like me.
 
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