"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i have trouble cuming...

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okay so i fuked some girl today.. if that counts as one without cuming. i was very dissapointed in myself but she seemed to love it anyway. went for 2 hours or so and i just couldnt ***... i had trouble finding her pusy too many times .. so embaressing. i aint had sex for a verrrry long time you would not beleive me if i told you.

so anyway the problem starts when she tenses her pusy it gets tight and my knob gets really fuking sensitive that i just have to pull out and have a small break. its like the feeling of when you've already came and your dik is all sensitive. how do i fix this :(

i havent slept with a woman in a long time. also does it mean my dik is small if it goes in pretty easy? or is that just her pus opening more cause shes horny?

i actually think i got problems being intimate. ive not had the best childhood or young adult hood... family fighting everyday n all that... and ive masturbated everyday almost or so to pictures n porn .. mostly to celebs that i have a crush on and that really get me off.. maybe im just really use to that and now that im having sex im out of my comfort zone or something.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HeyPachuco!

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ive masturbated everyday almost or so to pictures n porn
Heres you're problem.

STOP Masturbating everyday. I had the same problem once in the early stages with my ex girlfriend. I just couldn't seem to cvm atall. I stopped masturbating until I saw her. Then gradually it started coming as normal.

I doubt its domestic problems or that the girl doesn't get you off, maybe you're nervous or a feel abit shy to LET GO infront of her. Hell, if she isnt getting you off, close you're eyes and think of something erotic or something you wouldnt usually do (sleazy, dirty etc) that does. My problem was, that I was too NERVOUS to even look at her whilst having sex, her goodlooks used to deter me and I would just fake a nut.

After a while, I said fvck it, and started drooling on her, ****, even farting, then I would just cvm normally. I just let go.

Don't pull out when you start feeling sensitive, if anything, push the boundary, you could be confusing this for you're ejaculation.
 

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haha @ farting :p

thanks for the info.. i'll see how i go tonight :)
 
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