"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have to call this girl for the first time tonight...

El Duderino

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to set up a date for tomorrow...we've only spoken online for a bit on two separate occasions and have never met eachother but I asked her on a date monday and she agreed...she gave me her number when I asked for it to finish making plans later

I know the convo shouldn't be that long but what else should I say besides confirming the time and place...?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oakraiderz2

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Ask her how her weekends been, how shes doin, what shes doin and stuff like that. THen set everything up and say you gotta take a shower or something.
 

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Do you know what she looks like?...The reason being is she could be really ugly or even a middled age dude thats a perv. I don't meet people on computers like that though. Good luck with it
 

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Give him a break. If it turns out to be a bad experience he'll learn something. You should view everything as a learning experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I do view everything as a learning experience that's why i replyied "good luck with it." Sorry if it sounded negative.
 

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good luck, and as porky said treat it as a learning experiance, although i would not want to meet up with a girl i had only spoken to online twice, but hey.

Keep it short and to the point, so you don't have the time to stuff up too badly and you can keep your mystery intact. Around 5 minutes, make a little chit chat to build up and try not to sound too elated when she agrees as it makes you look desperate.

Do you know what you are doing with her?
 
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