"I have to ask my ex if I'm allowed to date you"

[For_F]

Known this hb7 for a couple years, we were set to date back when met her but I had oneitis back then and only dated one girl at a time lol. Hotter girl in the picture back then. Anyway so I rang her last night, talked for 10 minutes then I said I'd like to take you out Tuesday night. She replied saying that she'd love to hang out but has to ask her ex as they have an agreement that they can accept or deny any potential that comes into their life.

I said I thought you said you were single and she said I it's just out of respect for him. I simply replied with I think you should do what you feel you want to do. I know you want to spend time with me but that's your choice I'll ring you tomorrow night and we'll talk.

Wtf. She's a pretty bird, just want a little cake from her but what an arrangement haha.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Aaaaaaaand she's out. Already a control freak, still attached to her ex... does this really need to be spelled out??

 

[JohnChops]

is this for real? Low interest level, she still is attached to her ex. please move on here ... nothing to see .

 

[pinkfl]

Oh my word.

If a girl is asking an ex if it's ok for her to date, it's for one of the following reasons:
1. She wants him to be jealous
2. She wants to rekindle a romance with him and still cares about his opinion

Either way, it means a girl isn't ready to be dating, period because she is still defining herself in terms of what her ex-boyfriend thinks of her, when she should be thinking of herself in her own terms.