"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have this problem that needs some guiding

aWolf

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I met this girl

she's 6 years younger than me

we hit it off really well, I can say she's an 8

went dating for 2 months, lots of fun and great company

not like the previous girls I've dated

she really liked to do different activities

came from a broken family, she lives with her mom and 2 brothers

I'll explain more about her family because it will help you guys analyze her more

her dad is mom's second husband. the first one died 25 years ago, a girl and a boy were made from this marriage.

Then her mom met daddy and married, had her and her brother. The mom saparated from the dad about 6 years ago, took the kids and the house.

Mom constantly talks sh*t about the dad in front of her children, she doesnt allow the girl to see her father at all.

sometimes she sneaks and go to see him for a few hours without her mom knowing it.

Because if she knew, she'll flip out.

The mom is addictive to medical drugs, we can say she's an addict. going to the hospital every single day to take a shot, and she's perfectly healthy !

Sister got married and moved out the house, she has a kid, and she cheats on her husband.

So, the mom, brothers and the girl all live under one roof. They dont take care of the girl, she's wild and goes out every night to party.

I liked her a lot, because I'm suffering from depression and she's the only one that made me have fun, unlike the others who were just talking about their silly problems and sh*t

so we went on for two months, then I was talking to one of her guy friends that I really enjoy her company and the s*x was amazing

the f*cker went to her and told her that I was bragging about how I f*cked her to everyone ! I never said or meant that

she got angry, talked to her mother and they all confranted me in a parking lot, with about 7 of her friends that they were ready to beat me up or so

but they knew that I'm an MMA fighter so they couldn't dare

The mom started to spit on me, calling names at me and how I'm not raised well how could I go and brag about f*cking someone

I just stood there, shocked, and looking at the girl, she looked back at me with hatred and disgust.

She really hates me now, and I dont know what to do,

Karma is a b*tch, her and that guy had a huge fight, and didnt talk to each other sense.

I liked her guys, and now she hates me so much and I dont know what to do

sometimes I wish that I could go and explain everything, but I know its a waste of time


I've read that when your ex has resentment feelings about you is much better than not having any feelings at all

Advice ?

I'm currently going out with 2 girls but I cant shake that girl out of my head

it has been 3 months now
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Julian

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Lol you should have wrekt them mate. Jk...lesson learned bro. Don't kiss an tell.
 

El Payaso

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Nothing you can do. If you try to reason with her, it will only make her feel justified. Let her seethe in her resentment. She sounds like a mental case anyway.
 

asa_don

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lol. be glad you're away from this group of nuts and don't look back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scars

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Crazy girls always give the best sex.

Is it worth your sanity and a new set of tires though?

Also.. You mentioned this girls is 6 years younger. She isn't underage is she?
 
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