"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have this problem that needs some guiding

aWolf

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I met this girl

she's 6 years younger than me

we hit it off really well, I can say she's an 8

went dating for 2 months, lots of fun and great company

not like the previous girls I've dated

she really liked to do different activities

came from a broken family, she lives with her mom and 2 brothers

I'll explain more about her family because it will help you guys analyze her more

her dad is mom's second husband. the first one died 25 years ago, a girl and a boy were made from this marriage.

Then her mom met daddy and married, had her and her brother. The mom saparated from the dad about 6 years ago, took the kids and the house.

Mom constantly talks sh*t about the dad in front of her children, she doesnt allow the girl to see her father at all.

sometimes she sneaks and go to see him for a few hours without her mom knowing it.

Because if she knew, she'll flip out.

The mom is addictive to medical drugs, we can say she's an addict. going to the hospital every single day to take a shot, and she's perfectly healthy !

Sister got married and moved out the house, she has a kid, and she cheats on her husband.

So, the mom, brothers and the girl all live under one roof. They dont take care of the girl, she's wild and goes out every night to party.

I liked her a lot, because I'm suffering from depression and she's the only one that made me have fun, unlike the others who were just talking about their silly problems and sh*t

so we went on for two months, then I was talking to one of her guy friends that I really enjoy her company and the s*x was amazing

the f*cker went to her and told her that I was bragging about how I f*cked her to everyone ! I never said or meant that

she got angry, talked to her mother and they all confranted me in a parking lot, with about 7 of her friends that they were ready to beat me up or so

but they knew that I'm an MMA fighter so they couldn't dare

The mom started to spit on me, calling names at me and how I'm not raised well how could I go and brag about f*cking someone

I just stood there, shocked, and looking at the girl, she looked back at me with hatred and disgust.

She really hates me now, and I dont know what to do,

Karma is a b*tch, her and that guy had a huge fight, and didnt talk to each other sense.

I liked her guys, and now she hates me so much and I dont know what to do

sometimes I wish that I could go and explain everything, but I know its a waste of time


I've read that when your ex has resentment feelings about you is much better than not having any feelings at all

Advice ?

I'm currently going out with 2 girls but I cant shake that girl out of my head

it has been 3 months now
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julian

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Lol you should have wrekt them mate. Jk...lesson learned bro. Don't kiss an tell.
 

El Payaso

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Nothing you can do. If you try to reason with her, it will only make her feel justified. Let her seethe in her resentment. She sounds like a mental case anyway.
 

asa_don

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lol. be glad you're away from this group of nuts and don't look back.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Scars

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Crazy girls always give the best sex.

Is it worth your sanity and a new set of tires though?

Also.. You mentioned this girls is 6 years younger. She isn't underage is she?
 
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