“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have stumbled across my own piece of advice to you guys..

maosrdbf

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I think we all understand that the point of this forum is for us to help each other out and work together so that we could all reach our goals, which all happen to be the same.

As we learn new stuff, we are supposed to share it on this forum. Some do that, some don't.

Here is what I've learned...

When it comes to picking up girls, many guys here said they had this scheme. They would do something ridiculous to get her attention and then begin talking to her.

I came up with mine as well.

Here are the facts:

1. Some interesting scheme will always get the girl's attention. What you do, is up to you however.

2. When I do it with my friends, that is when it is easiest, because we play it off as a joke.

So here is my example (which is true):

When we see a girl we find attractive, one of us goes up with like a bottle of water (this is in the gym) and says to her "I have here for you, a complimentary bottle of water from my pal over there. I suggest that you go and thank him for it"

Not only is this hillarious between my friends and I, but we successfully led the girls on 100% of the time doing this.


So there is my advice.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Pretty damn good advice for when you're in smaller groups of friends.
 

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It's funny, but I was expecting more from this post. I think your title threw me off. lol

Anyway, I'll give it a try. Even if it doesn't work, it will be fun.
 

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Originally posted by Sax God
It's funny, but I was expecting more from this post. I think your title threw me off. lol

Anyway, I'll give it a try. Even if it doesn't work, it will be fun.
Sorry to disappoint you :) . I will try to come up with better stuff .. some interesting crap happened to me last night and it might turn into something, might not; I'll talk about it later if it does..
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm sorry, but my english vocabulary isn't has good as my dutch, i don't understand why the bottle is complementary...;

Could someone help me out? So I can translate it to my language, so my next victim doesn't have to understand english...:)

bye
 

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Originally posted by El brujo
I'm sorry, but my english vocabulary isn't has good as my dutch, i don't understand why the bottle is complementary...;

Could someone help me out? So I can translate it to my language, so my next victim doesn't have to understand english...:)

bye
Make up something. Say "here is a complimentary bottle of water for your hair", or something like that. If you say nothing and just say "here is a complimentary bottle of water", then she pretty much understands that you gave it to her because you took notice of her and find her attractive.
 

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But what does complimentary mean?:)
 

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Originally posted by El brujo
But what does complimentary mean?:)
Free. Like..a gift.

If you walked into a bar and the bartender said, "here is a complimentary beer on the house", it would mean that he'd be giving you a free beer for something you did, or maybe because of some characteristic.
 

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Okay thanks! It's a pitty that I had to make my Oral Exam English this morning, so now I can't brag with my new-obtained knowledge...:)

CA
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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