I Have Some Questions For The Seasoned Cold Approach DJ

[soulforge]

I have some questions, as I have missed out on the opportunity to talk to some damn fine hotties recently, due to hesitancy!

01. Is it even worthwhile approaching a girl wearing headphones?

02. If a hot girl walks past you in the opposite direction & she is walking pretty fast, is it even worth while circling back to go after her & try to engage in conversation? Would that not be perceived as a little stalkerish?

03. Is it best to let her know upfront, that you find her attractive & want her number. Keep it short and sweet.. Or is it better to engage in casual conversation beforehand?

04. Gym game. The gym I attend is wall to wall hot chicks.. Do you guys approach girls in the gym, even when it is super busy and crowded, or is it best to choose a time when it less crowded. I am thinking about the embarrassment factor if she rejects you very publicly Infront of everyone.

 

[SW15]

01. Is it even worthwhile approaching a girl wearing headphones?

The degree of difficulty increases by a lot if you do this. AG Hayden has a tactic for getting women to remove headphones on approaches. You can do it but realize that you're odds are going to much lower and you'll piss off a lot of women doing this.

02. If a hot girl walks past you in the opposite direction & she is walking pretty fast, is it even worth while circling back to go after her & try to engage in conversation? Would that not be perceived as a little stalkerish?

Pass on this.

03. Is it best to let her know upfront, that you find her attractive & want her number. Keep it short and sweet.. Or is it better to engage in casual conversation beforehand?

Phone numbers are irrelevant. The goal is not to get a phone number. The goal is to either get same night sex or arrange a future date. Collect a phone number after that.

An extended initial conversation is good to assess whether or not there's a good chance for a meaningful first date to happen.

04. Gym game. The gym I attend is wall to wall hot chicks.. Do you guys approach girls in the gym, even when it is super busy and crowded, or is it best to choose a time when it less crowded. I am thinking about the embarrassment factor if she rejects you very publicly Infront of everyone.

Do the approach like this. Most of the general gym floor is going to be women using headphones/earbuds and you're back at Question 1. Approach good targets on the general gym floor. Fitness classes at your gym may be the workaround for the earbud problem as women don't wear earbuds in fitness classes. Even without earbuds, women are not very sociable before/after fitness classes.