I have some news for those that think “working on yourself” gets you women

[captain55]

The guy who gets the most hot women is the one who gets the most exposure to hot women not the most high status man

Last night as I am leaving a restaurant in my 70k Mercedes, wearing my Rolex with diamonds a nice Jewish girl from across the street flirts with me. But I didn’t even bother walking across the street for a gold digger and didn’t care to get get number.

Four years ago, I was a broke personal trainer making 35k a year, but I was consistently around hot women. I had tons of options and had the free time to game all day

If your truly putting in 60 hours a week at your job, and working out 3-4 times a week like you should, you simply won’t have time to pursue women. I could quit my job tomorrow and get a job as a waiter somewhere, day game in Santa Monica all day, I would be banging tons of quality ass.

Money does not equal women, more free time does. I get out one night a week if I’m lucky these days. At some point you must chose personal success and your career over *****.

 

[Skyline]

Last night as I am leaving a restaurant in my 70k Mercedes, wearing my Rolex with diamonds a nice Jewish girl from across the street flirts with me. But I didn’t even bother walking across the street for a gold digger and didn’t care to get get number.

Little counter productive don’t you think?

You’re expressing a certain type(wealth) yet automatically shoot women down for being a “gold digger.”

Wealthy people don’t really express wealth like this. My friend makes 6 figures yet he doesn’t drive a 70k car or have anything expensive on him.

Your post is no different than someone claiming that women only go for the jerks or women complaining on why they can’t find a good man.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Most women I meet are either through dance or fitness classes.

Out of curiosity, what kinds of dance classes?

 

[Kotaix]

"You don't need a million bucks to do nothing. Just look at my cousin, he's broke and don't do ****"

There is something to be said about balancing work and having fun. But everyone's idea of a meaningful life is different, and most people are just too lazy to do the work it takes to get in shape and STAY in shape. To show up to work and perservere in the face of adversity and criticism. A lot of people are also not intelligent enough to succeed, and you can't make a person smarter.

Having hot women around you is easy af, you just have to show up at the correct place. And having sex with them means developing social intelligence and believing in yourself, it's hard to believe in yourself if you're a broke fat slob.

 

[MatureDJ]

The yoga classes are like 90% bangable women too ... All I know is that 75% of the demographic are women with sexy yoga pants.

I would be conspicuous there with my erection.

 

[redskinsfan92]

The guy who gets the most hot women is the one who gets the most exposure to hot women not the most high status man

Last night as I am leaving a restaurant in my 70k Mercedes, wearing my Rolex with diamonds a nice Jewish girl from across the street flirts with me. But I didn’t even bother walking across the street for a gold digger and didn’t care to get get number.

Four years ago, I was a broke personal trainer making 35k a year, but I was consistently around hot women. I had tons of options and had the free time to game all day

If your truly putting in 60 hours a week at your job, and working out 3-4 times a week like you should, you simply won’t have time to pursue women. I could quit my job tomorrow and get a job as a waiter somewhere, day game in Santa Monica all day, I would be banging tons of quality ass.

Money does not equal women, more free time does. I get out one night a week if I’m lucky these days. At some point you must chose personal success and your career over *****.

Hot women are starting to show up at my new gym, but now I injured my rotary cuff on a hike. Might be limited in what I can do for a few weeks to months

 

[zekko]

If your truly putting in 60 hours a week at your job, and working out 3-4 times a week like you should, you simply won’t have time to pursue women.

Maybe not, but you'll have a healthy body and a solid financial situation. What's more important, that or "pursuing women"?

Part of "working on yourself" includes developing a social life that has attractive women in it.

That is true also. Balance is important in life. It depends on what your goals are. I know there are times when I had to put my social life (including women) on the back burner because I was working to hard to advance in other areas.

 

[captain55]

Little counter productive don’t you think?

You’re expressing a certain type(wealth) yet automatically shoot women down for being a “gold digger.”

Wealthy people don’t really express wealth like this. My friend makes 6 figures yet he doesn’t drive a 70k car or have anything expensive on him.

Your post is no different than someone claiming that women only go for the jerks or women complaining on why they can’t find a good man.

You missed the point. I didn’t approach the chick because she was across the street and I’m not running across the street to chase some female just because she was flirting with me it’s a terrible look.

My point is, a broke guy with a social circle that has hot women in it will bang more chicks than a guy with money that lives a busy work life and rarely goes out. Aside from the jewelry you wear, how is a girl ever going to know how much money you have? You can’t bring a car in a club with you. Sure Bottle service is a possibility but I’m not spending $500 on a bottle of liquor.

 

[captain55]

Part of "working on yourself" includes developing a social life that has attractive women in it. This is the part that skips over every guy's head in the manosphere. They don't seem to know any women.

The 3-4 times I work out is at a fitness center that has cardio kickboxing and various other classes and tons of hot women. Most women I meet are either through dance or fitness classes.

I'm not the smartest guy in the world but I know that proximity and having "shared interests" with women is half the battle. People are having sex left and right in these circles. Seems like everyone but guys in the manosphere are getting laid like it's America's favorite pastime.

And how does one develop a social circle with hot women in it? The only time that’s ever worked for me is when I’m banging a hot chick and she has other hot friends. Most of my friends don’t have access to hot women.

 

[Skyline]

You missed the point. I didn’t approach the chick because she was across the street and I’m not running across the street to chase some female just because she was flirting with me it’s a terrible look.

My point is, a broke guy with a social circle that has hot women in it will bang more chicks than a guy with money that lives a busy work life and rarely goes out. Aside from the jewelry you wear, how is a girl ever going to know how much money you have? You can’t bring a car in a club with you. Sure Bottle service is a possibility but I’m not spending $500 on a bottle of liquor.

That just sounds like an excuse on why you didn’t approach. You get all dressed up and then make an excuse on why you didn’t approach when someone shows interest.

I know a guy that gets a free table+drinks at pretty much every popular club and he’s basically broke.

Money isn’t everything, I’d argue that even hobo’s can pull a decent girl. In fact, there was an article about a homeless dude sleeping with women just to have a place to stay for a night or two.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

The yoga classes are like 90% bangable women too

Thanks for the info. I haven't tried dance class yet but I'll have to consider giving it a shot. I do go to yoga regularly, and I'd say that there are probably more hot girls in yoga classes than in any single other location, but I have never really found a good time to talk to women in a yoga class. Before class it's dead silent as people prepare, and after class everyone is so busy wrapping up and heading out. Add the fact that I know I'll be seeing all these people repeatedly and I could very quickly get a reputation as "that guy who keeps hitting on the cute skinny girls." I approach in crowded public spaces or on the street but yoga class has eluded me.

All I know is that 75% of the demographic are women with sexy yoga pants

Women wearing yoga pants everywhere had been in style for a while now, and I have to say, I'm literally terrified it's going to go away soon and be replaced by another 90's re-run of baggy high-waisted jeans and loose tops where you have no clue what's going on under there.

 

[Serenity]

Many guys try jumping through hoops placed by women. Working on yourself to gain women is the same, but you'd also be jumping through your own hoops. The purpose of doing that isn't and shouldn't be to become attractive, because you won't gain much attractiveness for the high amount of effort put into it. There's easier and more specialized ways to get positive attention from women than the ways commonly promoted on this forum, which can be done on the side of all the other improvements.

Apparently the mantra is LMS, so few even believe it's possible to bypass all that crap, but it's incredible what a little bit of wit and confidence can do.

 

[Trump]

And how does one develop a social circle with hot women in it? The only time that’s ever worked for me is when I’m banging a hot chick and she has other hot friends. Most of my friends don’t have access to hot women.

+1.

Even if friends did, you would have to drop like $250,000 US in their bank account before they go out of their way to introduce a young hot girl.

Guy friends have trouble helping other guy friends do things like move or do an airport pickup. But a GUY friend is going to introduce his GUY friends to the harem of top actresses and models he knows so they can have sex with them? Give me a break.

A lot of the advice from top players “Have hobbies and work where the hot 27 single available children educated women are.”
And to make a lot of money “Go hang out with Warren Buffet and Bill Gates.”

The advice here is logical and top notch.

 

[Pandora]

Man I figured this out as a poor medical student. I would hang around these rich physicians in Vegas. They would make us their designated drivers when they wanted a night out on the town. They would all be banging pornstars ( pornstars escort on the side). I have met a couple pornstars because of this. These men had all the money in the world but they just didn't have the exposure to young hot chicks. So they just bought them.

I was getting more free poon ( less high quality) than they were because I lived in off campus undergrad housing. Girls were everywhere. We were in our late 20's living with college chicks. It was a field day and we were broker than broke. Proximity and good looks are the ultimate trump card. But the catch is what Zekko said. The older you get the more priority you have to put on financial security and that means not being around women for months because you are working all the time.

 

[samspade]

Hot women are starting to show up at my new gym, but now I injured my rotary cuff on a hike. Might be limited in what I can do for a few weeks to months

I'm curious how you tore it hiking...were you climbing too? Or spear fishing, haha.

Anyway, about the OP, it's about balance and choices. Work 60 hour weeks, you'll maybe make more money or have more career advancement but be tired. Every man must make the choice that works for him and accept the consequences. I guess that's why coke is so popular on Wall Street but unfortunately that's not a healthy workaround in the long term.

 

[redskinsfan92]

I'm curious how you tore it hiking...were you climbing too? Or spear fishing, haha.

Anyway, about the OP, it's about balance and choices. Work 60 hour weeks, you'll maybe make more money or have more career advancement but be tired. Every man must make the choice that works for him and accept the consequences. I guess that's why coke is so popular on Wall Street but unfortunately that's not a healthy workaround in the long term.

There was a 1.9 mile rock scramble. That required climbing up and over and between rocks/boulders.
It's either a strain or a minor partial tear.

 

[Focal core]

Bullsheet.. Ive been working towards myself for years.. And I got tons of attention, stare from hot women everyday.. If I want them I just snap my fingers.. Mercedes and rolex doesn't means ****.. Its you that matters most.

 

[Alvafe]

The guy who gets the most hot women is the one who gets the most exposure to hot women not the most high status man

Last night as I am leaving a restaurant in my 70k Mercedes, wearing my Rolex with diamonds a nice Jewish girl from across the street flirts with me. But I didn’t even bother walking across the street for a gold digger and didn’t care to get get number.

Four years ago, I was a broke personal trainer making 35k a year, but I was consistently around hot women. I had tons of options and had the free time to game all day

If your truly putting in 60 hours a week at your job, and working out 3-4 times a week like you should, you simply won’t have time to pursue women. I could quit my job tomorrow and get a job as a waiter somewhere, day game in Santa Monica all day, I would be banging tons of quality ass.

Money does not equal women, more free time does. I get out one night a week if I’m lucky these days. At some point you must chose personal success and your career over *****.

6 years on this forum and still not understanding the meaning of what is said....

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

If you guys feel as if something is missing from his theory, it's because he didn't account for physical attraction.

Women are just human and they get turned on by men they think look good. Some men, no matter how many hot women they're around, will never get those hot women.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Warren Buffet is all about Patience. I am not wealthy now (but am head n' shoulders above 90% of Americans). I am waiting to Strike at the Heart of Hope! I am waiting (patience) for a sudden 2008-like decline. Then I may be gettin "wealthy" or maybe I'm not gettin wealthy cause you never know which side of whatever equation you be on.