"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have so bad oneitis right now...

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I am litteraly crying.

Its kind of LOL :)

Being a man and having the occational burst of crying because my bed is too empty now without my loved GF....


Anyway, I'll get my f*** together and be a man tomorrow. Promise.


I did not remember that being emo and having onetis was so bad...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're human....sometimes life hurts. You'll get over it. Best of luck to you!
 
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Thanks Echoes! I wasn't expecting a friendly response!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All too familiar feeling....

I feel you bro. I recently got ****ed up pretty bad myself. Its not easy and there's no way to prepare for it until it happens to you. You're still human, its impossible to be completely objective. Emotions can't be described, only felt. You have to taste the poison to know the cure, so to speak...This happens to more people than you think, it will take time, but you'll be moving forward in no time.

Good luck bro
 
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Most of the people who visit these forums are doing so for a similar reason.

Don't worry about feeling bad, sure you should be a man, but it's not an over night process. You must work hard, train hard, and think hard. It takes time to become the best person you can be. And good luck to you.

Not many of us have role models in life who can teach us the ways of the world.

"We're a generation of men brought up by women"
 
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I think Oneitis is the primary motivating factor for all men who learn to become a DJ. Even when you do, you'll just land an even hotter girl and get her to be so interested (at least originally) that the cycle repeats. I think we need to appreciate having had a girl who we like that much, even if it ends in heartbreak. I love when people say "Go fvck ten other women" - as if you can find that many girls you like that much.

But remember: Love is the illusion that one cvnt is different than another.
 
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I've been suffering from severe Oneitis for months now. It's been 29 days of NC. Started dating 3 other women - 2 are hotter and younger than she was.

But I can't stop thinking about my "one". I keep checking my phone and hoping my she will write again. What the hell is wrong with me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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