"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Have reached the next level

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Hey People

Ok. So usualy before i found this site i use to be confident (only around people i knew, other males and ugly girls) when i smoke to a dominating male i wasnt confident i didnt let my insequrity show but inside i was watchign eveythign i said and analyzing eveythign the guy said. With hot girls it wasnt much diffrent i didn t have the balls to approach and if i did approach it would be after 40 min of staring at her so id get rejected. The only girls i realy got were ugly so then i started convincing my self that i didnt need women which was stupid of me.

So a few months ago i found this DJ site and i came to a realisation deep inside i realy craved to have a hot girl and i didnt want to demny my self of this anymore i just read evything al the forums the DJ BIBLE evythign i could find and i tried to intake al the information and test and truth be told i ****ed up.

Till tonight ive been trying to implent all the dj srategies with no experince and i always failed or i got to scared and didnt approach. Tonight m y night started like that i walked in and i wanted to try eveythign i had read then i thought to my self i got al this konwladge from various people and how these thign apply to them and i am trying to apply these things to me. THis doesnt work so i tailored al this dj stuff to me and yes i started of small. Tnight i decided that my goal was not to pickup but to have fun and to not be so self concious and i did it in my won way. Most importantly it all worked i didnt pick but my confidnece is boosted after just one night. I was dancing like i never danced before i was talkign to every one including hot girls but i had no intention of picking them up and in the end they started chasing me but i rejected them because my friend was tired and wanted to leave.

The main point is read the DJ BIBLE and read Weapons of Mass Seduction but dont take it al to heart we are al diffrent and what works for Pook an Senior FIngers wont necisarly for you the only thing you should get from these post is the idea then you tailor it to suit you.

Next time I got to a club I know I will be better then I was tonight and every time I will get better and better and my confidence will grow and then I will achieve one of my goals. For tonight I am happy in knowing I have reached the next level and I am eager to get to the next one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I didn't write that.....but anyway why bring up posts written a year ago and why do a search on my nick?? (this guy i know wrote this from his computer because i opend mya ccount on his comp and the cookies saved my account he though he had his account signed in)

Ninja out
 

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so is that guy ne gd with girls?
 

Black_Italian

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I don't talk to him anymore he's very negative he goes out clubbing and points out all the badthings and looks for the worst in any situation. I don't get why BMW would reopen a post that gor no replys over a year ago.

Ninja out
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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to show you up and be clever.
 
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