"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I Have reached the next level

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Hey People

Ok. So usualy before i found this site i use to be confident (only around people i knew, other males and ugly girls) when i smoke to a dominating male i wasnt confident i didnt let my insequrity show but inside i was watchign eveythign i said and analyzing eveythign the guy said. With hot girls it wasnt much diffrent i didn t have the balls to approach and if i did approach it would be after 40 min of staring at her so id get rejected. The only girls i realy got were ugly so then i started convincing my self that i didnt need women which was stupid of me.

So a few months ago i found this DJ site and i came to a realisation deep inside i realy craved to have a hot girl and i didnt want to demny my self of this anymore i just read evything al the forums the DJ BIBLE evythign i could find and i tried to intake al the information and test and truth be told i ****ed up.

Till tonight ive been trying to implent all the dj srategies with no experince and i always failed or i got to scared and didnt approach. Tonight m y night started like that i walked in and i wanted to try eveythign i had read then i thought to my self i got al this konwladge from various people and how these thign apply to them and i am trying to apply these things to me. THis doesnt work so i tailored al this dj stuff to me and yes i started of small. Tnight i decided that my goal was not to pickup but to have fun and to not be so self concious and i did it in my won way. Most importantly it all worked i didnt pick but my confidnece is boosted after just one night. I was dancing like i never danced before i was talkign to every one including hot girls but i had no intention of picking them up and in the end they started chasing me but i rejected them because my friend was tired and wanted to leave.

The main point is read the DJ BIBLE and read Weapons of Mass Seduction but dont take it al to heart we are al diffrent and what works for Pook an Senior FIngers wont necisarly for you the only thing you should get from these post is the idea then you tailor it to suit you.

Next time I got to a club I know I will be better then I was tonight and every time I will get better and better and my confidence will grow and then I will achieve one of my goals. For tonight I am happy in knowing I have reached the next level and I am eager to get to the next one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn't write that.....but anyway why bring up posts written a year ago and why do a search on my nick?? (this guy i know wrote this from his computer because i opend mya ccount on his comp and the cookies saved my account he though he had his account signed in)

Ninja out
 

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so is that guy ne gd with girls?
 

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I don't talk to him anymore he's very negative he goes out clubbing and points out all the badthings and looks for the worst in any situation. I don't get why BMW would reopen a post that gor no replys over a year ago.

Ninja out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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to show you up and be clever.
 
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