I Have No One To Go Out In The Field With

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

All my old friends go out but there seems to be a huge gap between me and them now seeing as we don't go to the same college anymore, so when I do go out with them I'm just sitting around being bored and not enjoying myself

All my new college friends are full of life and bring out the best in me, yet they don't like having nights out. Now we're all a good looking bunch but I feel this is really holding me back as I've had a dry spell since November and I really need some to feel better about myself soonish

tl;dr old friends go out but are boring, new friends are fun but dont go out

 

[ssj4halo]

Try to get your new friends to go out in baby steps. One thing leads to another when they see how fun it is.

 

[speakeasy]

What about day game? You don't really need wings for day game because DG is all about hitting up girls in unexpected, spontaneous places during the day when their b*tch shield is down.

 

[theunflushables]

I've had a dry spell since November and I really need some to feel better about myself soonish

If sex or lack of sex is how you define how you feel about yourself, you need to seriously reframe your thinking and work on your inner game.

How you feel about yourself should be defined about your accompllishments in life. Pvssy comes and pvssy goes, you can have a streak or a dry spell. Don't let dictate how it makes you feel.

And if you can't get your friends to go out, go out alone.

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

If sex or lack of sex is how you define how you feel

And if you can't get your friends to go out, go out alone.

oh hell no! that would never work

 

[Solomon]

If sex or lack of sex is how you define how you feel about yourself, you need to seriously reframe your thinking and work on your inner game.

How you feel about yourself should be defined about your accompllishments in life. Pvssy comes and pvssy goes, you can have a streak or a dry spell. Don't let dictate how it makes you feel.

And if you can't get your friends to go out, go out alone.

Yes sir, I go solo
1 set no problem
3 set no problem
10 set (yes I've done this and pulled) NO problem

 

[wolf116]

join a local lair, I'm thinking of doing this

 

[Solomon]

join a local lair, I'm thinking of doing this

*sigh*

do I have to keep posting my lair link?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158404&highlight=lair

 

[theunflushables]

oh hell no! that would never work

It wouldn't work only because you think that it WON'T work.

I'm going through my past and of the women I've slept with and I can only think of two who I met with friends. Its all about confidence. Believe in yourself and you'll be astonished at the amazing sh1t you can pull off.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

All my old friends go out but there seems to be a huge gap between me and them now seeing as we don't go to the same college anymore, so when I do go out with them I'm just sitting around being bored and not enjoying myself

All my new college friends are full of life and bring out the best in me, yet they don't like having nights out. Now we're all a good looking bunch but I feel this is really holding me back as I've had a dry spell since November and I really need some to feel better about myself soonish

tl;dr old friends go out but are boring, new friends are fun but dont go out

This happened to me recently. I moved from Suffolk to Nassau county and all the girls I bang live in Suffolk. All my friends also live in Suffolk. There are SOO MANY clubs and bars in my area, I drive past all of them when I LEAVE WORK AT 12AM! I'm so into going out and sarging but it's NOT THE SAME without my wings! I used to ENJOY MYSELF SO MUCH MORE when I had my homies nearby. It's tough replacing friends...they all knew the community and it's jargon so well...

 

[The Rhythm]

It's always good to be with people with common interests.

But instead of cursing your life, you can see it as an opportunity to scrap out your old self, be a new guy, make new friends, and live a new life.

This is pretty common with young dudes just moving out of college to a new city for work etc. Try finding guys in your area through this website or some other source.

Btw, you can still do day game if you are alone. Make female friends and go out with them. Sounds tough though, I agree, but you gotta try.


To guywhoneedshelp,

Where in Nassau county do you stay? We can try being wings, see how it goes. I Just moved here. Pm me.

 

[wolf116]

*sigh*

do I have to keep posting my lair link?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158404&highlight=lair

Wow a sample size of 2! all guys from the thousands of lairs across the planet must be loosers then. The reason I'm joining one is because I found out a friend of mine, who i thought was a natural, is actually a member of a lair.