"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have no idea......

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Oka whenever i go somewhere and i see a hot girl millions and millions of things run through my mind.One major thing for me is i have no experience at all in approaches and the only date i went on ever which was last month didnt turn to anything after it.So that said im not going anyhwere at all.Im nineteen years old and my life is flashing before my eyes.Oka im getting off topic anywayz i cant seem to look a girl in the eyes when there coming towards me.Sometimes i want to talk to the girl but i cant cuz im thinking of all the negatives that might happen.So who knows whats going to happen to me.........i would like to change but i cant seem to get my self hyped up enough to do it.I dont think ill ever taste some lips or get laid:(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DON`T LOOK THEM IN THE EYES!!! THEY CAN KILL AFC´S WITH ONE LOOK!!! :D

So, you realize your problem. Good. Next solve it. How to solve it? Just do it. Walk to the girl and say hi for instance. It´s the first step.. you can´t expect to be master without practice.
 

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Don't listen to "Tango"!
DO look them in the eyes! And as you are looking into her eyes,
think to yourself, "Girl, I can make you writhe with extasy as I'm making love to you!" Think about what you'd like to do to her if you and her were alone. This will put you in the right sexy/animalistic/hunter frame of mind, and she will sense it!
 

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what??? shell sense this? ive never heard of this before but ill try it out
 

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i've heard they can sense it as well, but i don't believe after having tried it out for a week, because i can't see any of the effects. Pook said that if you stand in a spot surrounded by girls, e.g. in a mall or in town and you stare at a girl like you really want to fvck her, she will sense that and stare back at you. Not happened yet i'm afraid.

at the moment, long ec with girls who are walkin towards me make my d!ck excited. all the more reason to do it more.

you never felt that intraining? you must get a rush from doing it. people pay for that rush man - rollercoasters, scary films etc. why pay when you can have it for free. take advantage now, cuz soon it will run out

[edit] and why can't i see the word alcohol yet in this thread?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OK, here's what ya do. Find the nearest "clothing optional" (eg. "nudest") resort. Get yourself a day pass (you might have to take an "LJBF" along if that particular resort won't accept single males). When you get there, talk to any woman you come across. Your point here isn't to pick up some hottie, it's to relax when talking to women, so you will be talking to fat ones, ugly ones, some old enough to be your mom or grandma. Think about it, if you can stand there with your d!ck hanging out talking to a naked woman, how difficult will it be to talk to some fully dressed hottie in a club??

Oh yes, talk to the guys there as well. One thing you will notice is that their d!cks are just as small as yours. See, you aren't too small!
 

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Originally posted by Tango-Kid
DON`T LOOK THEM IN THE EYES!!!

This is the worst advice that I have ever heard. It all starts with positive eye contact, not looking her in the eyes is a sign of weakness. If you are not man enough to handle it, look between her eyes and to the center of her forehead. Don't forget to smile. If she doesn't respond, move on.

Remember, positive eye-to-eye contact is paramount!

Just do it~

:cool:
 

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I can do EC on the street with no problem now. If a girl returns EC I try to squeeze in a wink and a smile into the glimpse. Although, i've had virtually no success with this. Women on the street rarely respond to my EC. Everyone around here seems to be self-absorbed. Maybe they're just intimidated by my good looks :)
 

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gav, it does work. I can make a girl wet her panties simply by the way I look at her while I pass her on the street. I bet she starts thinking sex right away. That's usually the start of the attraction and you go from there with some simple, light convo or some C+F and work your way in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Ebach
gav, it does work. I can make a girl wet her panties simply by the way I look at her while I pass her on the street. I bet she starts thinking sex right away. That's usually the start of the attraction and you go from there with some simple, light convo or some C+F and work your way in.
that only works if you're an alpha male
 

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Don't listen to "Tango"!
Sweet Jesus... you guys don´t have sarcasm in your culture? Here they teach it at school :D

Oh, well. Hollowpoint is canadian :)
 

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lol tango, you even went to the effort of putting it in massive letters :D

ebach, that's great, but how do you know? do you stop and ask "em, excuse me, are your panties wet just now?"

i wonder how much wetness i've been causing with all my staring:confused: :p

crank, not 'alpha males' specifically, just attractive guys
 

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Whatever.

Tango-Kid,

I thought that you were just being scarcastic, but it is sometimes hard to tell the difference between the droves of AFC's, and guys who are just being scarcastic. Especially over an internet message board. You could be a bit more clear next time. You could have also made it even more humorous by being more specific as well.

If I had a dime for every AFC who wandered in here with his caps lock on, using massive amounts of exclamation points, and making dumb statements... I'd be a very rich man by now.

:D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I thought that you were just being scarcastic, but it is sometimes hard to tell the difference between the droves of AFC's, and guys who are just being scarcastic. Especially over an internet message board.
I agree with that one. Being sarcastic - and understanding sarcasm is sometimes difficult in internet boards and chats. Also, you guys don´t know me so well yet. If PuertoRican_Lover would say something such as I did - you would KNOW he´s joking. Peace :D

Now, on with the subject.
 
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