"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have no experience...

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Scorrere

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So, I'm 20, never held hands never kissed a girl obviously never ****ed a girl. Have danced/grinded with about 5 girls in total although they were all friends so it didn't really mean anything. I also look like I'm 16 since I'm a little overweight but even if I lost that weight, I'll still look that young (I was skinny when i was 18 and looked 15 at the most). I've already started exercising again to lose the weight but I don't know where to start with girls. I am fine talking to girls as friends although usually I have to be introduced to them first, I've never once done a cold approach. I've read the DJ bible but so much of the information is really vague, I need specifics on what to start doing. I am social and go to parties at school but still haven't gotten anything even if I get ridicously drunk. In fact, that usually just makes me feel really depressed so I've cut back on it a lot but I don't understand how people say it makes you better socially, I just turn into a bumbling retard...

So I guess I'm looking for more specific advice and also, do you think my real real inexperience holds me back. I feel like I'm already out of the running since I haven't done anything and all the girls I talk to want a guy who is experienced with dating and sex which obviously isn't me. And plenty of them tell me there are other guys out there in my same position but when I ask them to name some they just blank out and change the subject. I know there are guys that are still virgins, plenty of those, but none that haven't even kissed a girl (even if it was some stupid thing back in 3rd grade).

Also, where the **** are all the slutty girls in college? I haven't met a single one who has more than 2 or 3 partners...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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life isn't all about getting chicks

you need to behappy with your own life first, your 20, so study in college, get a job, buy some nice clothes, work on your body.

dont cancel/pass up social outings, go out there, meet new people, expand your social web

you'll meet somebody whom you want to be with because you enjoy thier company, not just because you want to get with a chick
 
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