I have multiple numbers... Issues with using them all at once

[Sometimes]

Lets say I have multiple numbers *and I do* and I take one dancing, one to lunch and one to the movies all in the same week. (I have evil intentions heh... I dont wanna be friends with them ;D )

Its not like im exclusive with any of em... I like them all... but it still strikes me as weird and a bit wrong seeing em all at the same time.

*lol just worried if they find out.... kinda hard to explain my way outta it*

So what are your views on this?

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by Sometimes
Lets say I have multiple numbers *and I do* and I take one dancing, one to lunch and one to the movies all in the same week. (I have evil intentions heh... I dont wanna be friends with them ;D )

Its not like im exclusive with any of em... I like them all... but it still strikes me as weird and a bit wrong seeing em all at the same time.

*lol just worried if they find out.... kinda hard to explain my way outta it*

So what are your views on this?

although I disagree with what your doing

All you have to do is just say "Were we ever exclusive?" Since your not, whats the problem?

You could also use ******** on them,

quote by Pook

I like to meet new people and explore the adventures of life.

Translated into ********, this means…

I like to date/sleep with many since it is part of the fun of life!

 

[BobFuest]

well

i am not a master don juan yet (but well on my way) so dont listen to my advice but it seems to me that your fine and should not worry if they find out. Besides, maybe that will make them more jealous and want you more because they see other women want you to. Plus having all those women at the same time helps you keep your focus divided instead of on just one girl (one-i-tis). Go to do it to it pimp! your game sounds good so keep it going.

 

[BobFuest]

Re: Re: I have multiple numbers... Issues with using them all at once

Originally posted by comic_relief
although I disagree with what your doing

All you have to do is just say "Were we ever exclusive?" Since your not, whats the problem?

why do you disagree? I just wondered.

 

[Sometimes]

two are kinda friends (aqquantences?).... so im kinda worried

 

[comic_relief]

Re: Re: Re: I have multiple numbers... Issues with using them all at once

Originally posted by BobFuest
why do you disagree? I just wondered.

I disagree because I disagree with using women like that. I remember how it was when I was used in a different way and I remember the feelings that came along with it.

btw I edited my above post with an extra use of a tip from Pook.

Since you are sorta friends, sorta acquaintences. I'll help you figure out what you are with them. Do you want to have sex with them? Do you want to have sex with your male friends? I didn't think so (I'm assuming here). therefore you have ulterior motives to them. Friends do not have sexual feelings toward friends. This is the reason I don't try to make friends with girls unless I don't have a physical attraction to them. They have hot friends though.

 

[Sometimes]

oh no,,, i mean chick A is kinda friends (aqquantences?) with chick B

Thanks for all the advice. Appreciated

 

[BobFuest]

Originally posted by Sometimes
oh no,,, i mean chick A is kinda friends (aqquantences?) with chick B

Thanks for all the advice. Appreciated

oh. well you could be in trouble but i say go on with your plan. "juggling", as its called, is not a bad thing. Your not using the women any more then they would be using you. Remember, women always have men around. I am sure your not the only suitor (usually).

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by Sometimes
oh no,,, i mean chick A is kinda friends (aqquantences?) with chick B

Thanks for all the advice. Appreciated

they might or might not find out about each other but you could ask them for a threesome who knows? Maybe they are kinky

If they are friends with each other, I suggest that you don't do anything because women are already backstabbing enough. They don't need any of this bullsh!t.

 

[BobFuest]

Originally posted by comic_relief
they might or might not find out about each other but you could ask them for a threesome who knows? Maybe they are kinky

If they are friends with each other, I suggest that you don't do anything because women are already backstabbing enough. They don't need any of this bullsh!t.

hey now, we are the men. let the women worry about the women. women are twice as evil as us and need to see that its just as easy for us as it is for them. Besides, i have had sex with groups of friends and usually that only helps you. One tells the other one about how great in bed you were so then the other one wants to find out how great.. win win for this guy as far as I can see. maybe i am wrong but thats been my experience.

 

[satyriasis]

I see nothing wrong with it. Sleeping with or dating different women at once break no laws of the universe, that is If i'm single of course. I date whoever I want, and whenever I want. Don't let anyone or anything change you because of your natural desires and attraction to women. I don't see why people make this seem like it's a bad thing. Who's to say that she's not dating different men at once also?. "If am single, I can mingle."

 

[lebRambo]

its actually much better for you if they find out about each other, because then they'll be competing for your attention. Women love a man that has options. It gives them a challenge, which is something that doesn't often happen for women (at least attractive ones).

 

[oakraiderz2]

Re: Re: Re: Re: I have multiple numbers... Issues with using them all at once

Originally posted by comic_relief
I disagree because I disagree with using women like that. I remember how it was when I was used in a different way and I remember the feelings that came along with it.

btw I edited my above post with an extra use of a tip from Pook.

Since you are sorta friends, sorta acquaintences. I'll help you figure out what you are with them. Do you want to have sex with them? Do you want to have sex with your male friends? I didn't think so (I'm assuming here). therefore you have ulterior motives to them. Friends do not have sexual feelings toward friends. This is the reason I don't try to make friends with girls unless I don't have a physical attraction to them. They have hot friends though.

You should wipe the sand outta your cooter.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

And you are worried because???? Have you alluded to exclusivity? Are you doing things to make them 'think' you are commited to them just so you can get into their pants?

If you haven't done these things, why are you wasting energy worrying about it? Women do that type of thing; STOP IT!!!:kick:

 

[PRMoon]

Dating multiple women when possible should almost be a manditory effort for any serious dating gentleman. You'll never know what you really like unless you go out with more then one girl at a time. Juggling lots of girls also keeps you honest with yourself and your intentions when done correctly and with brains. Forget about "how it'll look" or "moral judgement" or even an exit route, if two of the girls know each other (or know of each other is what you sound like) then you shouldn't worry at all. Hell I probably wouldn't even worry about it if the girls partied together from time to time.

Life is short...drink it up.

 

[Sometimes]

Just what I was looking for.... Thanks!

*worse comes to worse I get dumped by all of them

 

[italostud]

Don't hide the fact from them. Here's an example from 2 nights ago...I picked up this spanish girl(who's number I got from a bar a couple of days before). As we're driving around, I'm doing the usual C+F routine...and she asks me "So you must have a girlfriend?" I said "Yeah, I've got like 4 or 5". There was a pause for a second before she said "Are you serious?" to which I replied "Yeah, but they're not exclusive!".

Arrogance works wonders my friend. 10 minutes later I was porking her by the side of the road while cars were driving by and probably getting a good look at my butt while I was nailing her.

I actually do have about 4 or 5 girls in rotation all of the time. I find it gets a little tricky trying to fit them all in though. And since about half of them just want to bang, and half want something more serious, it's difficult to schedule sometimes.

I'd take it slowly at first. Start by juggling 2, then work your way up. I'm actually thinking of reducing the number I have to 3 at the most. 5 is just too much and I end up not having time for one or two of them.

Also, don't get lazy! Keep getting new number and adding fresh girls into your rotation, and dropping contact with girls that are beginning to either bug you, or bore you.

I find for me, I will keep a girl in rotation for an average of 2 or 3 months. Seeing her maybe once a week, or every two weeks. This should allow you see 5 girls without causing TOO much double-bookings.

One last thing, and undoubtedly the most important: Don't forget your friends! Man I can't stress this shyt enough. Let ALL of the girls in your rotation know that you party with your friends often, and will do so whenever the hell you feel like it. Bros before hoes, man. Your friends serve 2 purposes. 1)They're your friends, enough said. 2)They're how you'll be getting all of these new girls for your rotation. Most of the girls I pick up are during nights out with the boys.

Good luck.