"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have money and a car, yet I'm still miserable.

Locster

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A little background information

I was born and raised in south central L.A. where poverty and crime are abundant. I grew up in poverty most of my life which forced me to make my own money. It was in my middle high school years when I started making money (legally) however I could. I managed to create my own small business where I made probably more than the average person in my neighborhood. No one knows about this besides my family since I have few friends who dont even know me very well. To make a long story short I have a nice car (fixed-up 96 honda accord) and enough money to buy whatever I want but I still dwell in my own pitty. I am in my way back up as I have posted before and was wondering if I should use this money in some way to my advantage.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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immrtlwun

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I know this is going to sound lame, but having money and stuff isn't going to make you happy. Just remember that you're better off than a lot of people in your neighborhood.

My best advice would be to save up and try to move out when you can. Move out and surround yourself with succesful people.
 

Aestheticly

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Locster said:
A little background information

I was born and raised in south central L.A. where poverty and crime are abundant. I grew up in poverty most of my life which forced me to make my own money. It was in my middle high school years when I started making money (legally) however I could. I managed to create my own small business where I made probably more than the average person in my neighborhood. No one knows about this besides my family since I have few friends who dont even know me very well. To make a long story short I have a nice car (fixed-up 96 honda accord) and enough money to buy whatever I want but I still dwell in my own pitty. I am in my way back up as I have posted before and was wondering if I should use this money in some way to my advantage.
Just curious, what exactly did you do to go from poverty to riches? I'm sure everyone's wondering. : )
 

BlackAccord

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It doesn't sound like he's rich. It just sounds like he's doing ok. I mean, a 'fixed-up' 96 accord isn't exactly something a CEO would drive. But continue to prosper and grow your business. That's important to life. Being in charge of a large business (being a self-made man) always attracts women, as some women are attracted to men in power and of course some straight to money.

Read this site about all the tips and such to become a DJ, and you might just find the right girl for you along the way. Continue to grow your business and do well in school, work, etc. and remember you can't buy happiness, you have to earn it. :up:
 

Locster

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Im not rich, Im just better off then most people considering Im only 17. I am thinking about buying a 2001 BMW M3 but i dont want to manipulate friends or girls with money.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dannowillbookem

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repeat...what did you do to get all that money?? curious

and money can make you happy. sorry, its true lol. well the money itself doesnt do anything, but with it you can afford opportunities with girls that most guys cant. you can dress nicely, get a nice car, go to the gym, etc. you can afford to go out most nights, and you can pay for gas etc. plus u get to honestly use the pickup line "i'm not really this tall, i'm just sitting on my wallet"

so? go out some.

got a cellphone? good man. head out to public (safe/non LA gang infested) places and meet people. go out with your boys. meet girls, hand them the cell and tell them to put their number in. it isnt that hard, ecspecially when you have a car to pick them up and ****. you've got opportunities that i dont have, and im a working class kid in a pretty good neighborhood. good job on making something of yourself.

so uh ps.- what kinda business did you start? lol
 

Locster

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I stated selling candy in the 9th grade. I saved all the money and with my computer knowledge I managed to form a partnership with my also young cousin to start a computer repair shop. And thats just my main business.
 
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