I have met the enemy and he is me

[forewarned77]

Hey guys, I have been on a reformation quest but every now and then I hit some obstacles. I have a friend who gets pu**y like you wouldn't believe and it frustrates me because I cannot do the same. I always end up comparing myself to him and I always end up beating myself up. I have had social anxiety for a long time and am still trying to overcome it, but it gets so frustrating the girls like a magnet go to him. What really hit me was when an ex of mine whom I was really into sent him a message on myspace, and thats when the AFC came out, I started that thinking that since he gets the girls he will get her too. Why it bothers me because I feel like he is better than me, stupid s**t I know but its real. Who knows maybe its a **** test. Any ideas how I can shed this AFC crap,or has anyone else experienced something like this?

 

[joekerr31]

put your age in your profile otherwise the mods are going to move your post.

im not going to waste my time replying to a post that is just going to end up getting moved.

you sound like your in your teens btw.

 

[##17]

Hey guys, I have been on a reformation quest but every now and then I hit some obstacles. I have a friend who gets pu**y like you wouldn't believe and it frustrates me because I cannot do the same. I always end up comparing myself to him and I always end up beating myself up. I have had social anxiety for a long time and am still trying to overcome it, but it gets so frustrating the girls like a magnet go to him. What really hit me was when an ex of mine whom I was really into sent him a message on myspace, and thats when the AFC came out, I started that thinking that since he gets the girls he will get her too. Why it bothers me because I feel like he is better than me, stupid s**t I know but its real. Who knows maybe its a **** test. Any ideas how I can shed this AFC crap,or has anyone else experienced something like this?

What are you doing specifically to better yourself?

 

[mahon83050]

Hey guys, I have been on a reformation quest but every now and then I hit some obstacles. I have a friend who gets pu**y like you wouldn't believe and it frustrates me because I cannot do the same. I always end up comparing myself to him and I always end up beating myself up. I have had social anxiety for a long time and am still trying to overcome it, but it gets so frustrating the girls like a magnet go to him. What really hit me was when an ex of mine whom I was really into sent him a message on myspace, and thats when the AFC came out, I started that thinking that since he gets the girls he will get her too. Why it bothers me because I feel like he is better than me, stupid s**t I know but its real. Who knows maybe its a **** test. Any ideas how I can shed this AFC crap,or has anyone else experienced something like this?

I hear you, I have friends whom I am very similiar to in the looks, intelligence and height department....however, they still do alot better than me.

YOU CAN'T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHER PEOPLE...it only brings you down.