"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swissgiant

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I met a really nice Chinese girl and we have been flirting with each other for about a week or two now. Should I take it further and ask her on a date? Theres one problem tho, shes returning to china this summer and I wont see her again until after summer. If I ask her out where should I take her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hell, even get sexual. Remember that you have limited time with her. Get a *******, screw her ***** hard, finger her with her chopsticks, whatever.

The time restraint can be a good motivation for you to game harder. Use it.
 
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