"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have just lost all respect for the advice on this site.

SoonToBeDJ

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iCatch said:
I just read the thread about the guy asking if he should cheat or not and there were replies saying yes. What's the point of going for all these girls if you're just going to cheat on them? What's the point in finding a quality girl if you're going to cheat on her anyway? What's the point of this site? I've been reading around and I thought this site helped guys be more confident with women so hopefully he could find a girl that is worth a relationship, but it seems like you guys are just using these DJ skills to fvck. Does anyone here have any damn morals?

I thought the point of looking for a girl was to look for a potential partner. How are you going to look for a potential partner if you're going to treat her like garbage anyway? I just lost so much respect for most of the posters on this site.
I think you need to respect the site and the people who are here to help, but that's just my opinion. This web site and the people who are a part of it have helped many men become better people, (including myself) as others have mentioned not just with dating. If you disagree with the cheating part and other stuff then you do what you believe in, but you shouldn't be putting anyone down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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