"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Have Inconsistent Confidence

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My confidence is a hit or a miss. When I have it, i'm at the top, when its just not there, I feel like everything I gained is lost and im starting from square one. When im confident, anything with any girl Ug1 or HB10, its automatic. When my fate for the day runs dry, I become afc, being called sooooo uncomfortable.

What takes me out of this state?

I guess not getting enough sleep combined with some dumb fu,king thing on my mind over a girl kills it or ending something on a bad note with a girl destroys my confidence for a while. The point is, it shouldn't. I'm a compleatley different person everyday and its compleatley unpredictable. Vibe with me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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