"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i have hit a plateau

QueRico

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nothing is working out for me, ****, this is my first major setback in a year since i began. i cant seem to get my **** straight. i have lots of prospects but nothing is working out and i cant seem to get my finger on what is that i am doing wrong. i had lots of deals going on, hbs lined up and all of a sudden i am not feeling it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual

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Read up posts on confidence in the DJ Bible. You need to give more information to be given advice. This sounds like a whine. Real men seek to solve problems.
 

oakraiderz2

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Stop, breate, take a step out of the picture and look around. Run through how you would do things, figure out what didnt worked and why, stop doing them. Reinvent yourself.
 

QueRico

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i did take a break. i am back on my groove. sapiens also posted some great advice lately on his blog that made sense of somethings i did not understand. thanks for the help.
 
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