"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have hairy legs...is that a good or bad thing lol?

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Its funny my legs are pretty hairy buts thats it. My arms arent hiary, my chest isnt hairy...just my legs lol. So is this a good or bad thing? Ive been wondering about this for a while
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had pretty hairy legs, enough so that my family called me a werewolf (no joke). But since I disliked having so much hair on my legs myself, I went out to K-Mart and bought a beard/mustache trimmer. I trimmed the hair down, now not only am I more comfortable but I don't feel bad wearing shorts either.
 

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yeah dude i used to have like curly hair on my legs nastttty...got one of those things they cut buzz cuts with. do my legs and yadda yadda yadda with it. make sure u have something that can adjust cutting sizes.
 

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But wouldnt people notice that you decided to trim down?
 

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don't feel to bad all through high school I had hairy legs chest and a hairy a$$. It was never an issue for me so if somebody said man ur hairy id just be like whatever if a girl said it a good reply was always thats cause Im an animal baby
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok dude, i am a hairy fvck similar to yourself. The difference? i'mproud of it.

I used to care what people thought, then one cily winter day, it hit me. My legs kept me warm 'n toasty!:D

Seriously dude, don't worry bout it, you'll get just as much tag as the next guy. and if a chick doesn't like you cuz of your legs, get rid of her ass.

And hairy legs are manly and masculinity is a turn on to women. Keep em hairy, if people make fun of it, take it in stride and tell em how it keeps you warm in the winter :D
 

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Originally posted by MiKe23
But wouldnt people notice that you decided to trim down?
well i cant stand the feel of them...i dont cut them to impress others, although it is an advantage.

but if people do notice, be straightup. yeah i clip them. i'm half jewish so thats my excuse lol.
 

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^ Jewish?


Originally posted by jbgmedia
don't feel to bad all through high school I had hairy legs chest and a hairy a$$. It was never an issue for me so if somebody said man ur hairy id just be like whatever if a girl said it a good reply was always thats cause Im an animal baby
hahaha....hilarious
 

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Well... the only people who have ever commented on my legs are my parents and this kid who is the biggest loser in my school. So I think ill just be proud of my legs and use them to my advantage somehow lol. Maybe I can get girls to pet them and then I can pur.
 

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I would appreciate knowing this too, you see, this one girl told me during gym class that I should shave my legs, but my older sister tells me that its not manly to shave my legs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's this?

Being a hary mofo myself, just dont let it bother you.

Ive had a girl tell me that it's actually kind of a turn on, since Im so comfortable with it.

Just be confident and it won't be a big deal.
 
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