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I have hairy legs...is that a good or bad thing lol?

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Its funny my legs are pretty hairy buts thats it. My arms arent hiary, my chest isnt hairy...just my legs lol. So is this a good or bad thing? Ive been wondering about this for a while
 

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I had pretty hairy legs, enough so that my family called me a werewolf (no joke). But since I disliked having so much hair on my legs myself, I went out to K-Mart and bought a beard/mustache trimmer. I trimmed the hair down, now not only am I more comfortable but I don't feel bad wearing shorts either.
 

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yeah dude i used to have like curly hair on my legs nastttty...got one of those things they cut buzz cuts with. do my legs and yadda yadda yadda with it. make sure u have something that can adjust cutting sizes.
 

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But wouldnt people notice that you decided to trim down?
 

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don't feel to bad all through high school I had hairy legs chest and a hairy a$$. It was never an issue for me so if somebody said man ur hairy id just be like whatever if a girl said it a good reply was always thats cause Im an animal baby
 

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Ok dude, i am a hairy fvck similar to yourself. The difference? i'mproud of it.

I used to care what people thought, then one cily winter day, it hit me. My legs kept me warm 'n toasty!:D

Seriously dude, don't worry bout it, you'll get just as much tag as the next guy. and if a chick doesn't like you cuz of your legs, get rid of her ass.

And hairy legs are manly and masculinity is a turn on to women. Keep em hairy, if people make fun of it, take it in stride and tell em how it keeps you warm in the winter :D
 

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Originally posted by MiKe23
But wouldnt people notice that you decided to trim down?
well i cant stand the feel of them...i dont cut them to impress others, although it is an advantage.

but if people do notice, be straightup. yeah i clip them. i'm half jewish so thats my excuse lol.
 

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^ Jewish?


Originally posted by jbgmedia
don't feel to bad all through high school I had hairy legs chest and a hairy a$$. It was never an issue for me so if somebody said man ur hairy id just be like whatever if a girl said it a good reply was always thats cause Im an animal baby
hahaha....hilarious
 

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Well... the only people who have ever commented on my legs are my parents and this kid who is the biggest loser in my school. So I think ill just be proud of my legs and use them to my advantage somehow lol. Maybe I can get girls to pet them and then I can pur.
 

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I would appreciate knowing this too, you see, this one girl told me during gym class that I should shave my legs, but my older sister tells me that its not manly to shave my legs.
 

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What's this?

Being a hary mofo myself, just dont let it bother you.

Ive had a girl tell me that it's actually kind of a turn on, since Im so comfortable with it.

Just be confident and it won't be a big deal.
 
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