I have decided to propose to my GF

[G_Govan]

Raising a family, being the leader of the family, that's a longstanding and legitimate male role, and if they can successfully pull it off, yeah I don't see anything "beta" about it.

Depends on how you define "success."

I know of couples who stayed together until they both died. I also know that the families beneath them were quite dysfunctional, which tends to get more or less passed down generation after generation.

Your environment plays a huge role in the success of your family. When you live in a modern, feminist leaning society you have literally no support to back you up. You can't lead people who know there aren't any consequences for challenging you and who are encouraged to buy into all sorts of propaganda from grade school to grad school, mass media, etc.

If you can effectively shelter your family away from the BS you've got a fighting chance. However, it's extremely difficult.

Most men who "appear" to have successfully married and raised children are lapdogs to their wives, if not the rest of their immediate family.

Do you know it's a common "thing" for the bridesmaids (including the bride at times) to take a group picture "mooning" the camera, sometimes with no panties on?

Marriage is a joke today.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

There ARE reasons for Divorce in the BIBLE. In fact, Jesus said,"if you are married to an unbeliever, and they leave, let them go" Infidelity, etc are all listed as reasons.....

It's RELIGION that is against Divorce.... NOT the Bible

Yep. I tend to go to church every Sunday but I don't like going around advertising this because I hate it when people start keeping attendance records or whatever the hell else they can think of.

One legit reason is also your spouse's lack of "performance", meaning sexual relations. When was the last time you ever heard this reason thrown around in church? Practically never. I'm at least thankful my priest is open and honest about this stuff. So yes, essentially if your woman isn't putting out the pu$$y on a regular basis, my priest has said to divorce this woman.