"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have crowded teeth... any advice?

donjuanapprentice01

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I think one of the reasons for my lack of success with girls is the fact that I have terribly crowded teeth... My parents never bothered taking me to an Orthodontist when I was young, and now I'm paying for it. Seriously, it's bad I look like a vampire when I smile and I'm very concious of it.

Anyone else have this problem? I refuse to get braces, so I guess my only option is to have all my teeth pulled and go with false teeth, but dental implants are expensive as hell.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She_feelin_Me

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Whats wrong with braces? I rather have braces then getting false teeth.
 

Cure

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Firstly, its a confidence thing, so long as you keep them clean and freash, your teeth are only a problem if you have issues with them/lack confidence as a result. Its doubtfull anyone but you sees your teeth as anything to shout about or comment on, so dont worry!

Secondly, on the braces topic, it may well be worth a few years of traintracks for a lifetime of nicly fixed teeth.
Failing that, you can now get a type of clear plastic brace which fits over the top of your teeth and is almost completly invisible unless someone knows its there. Go and see an orthodontist and see what he/she reccomends.

Cure
 

speed dawg

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donjuanapprentice01 said:
I refuse to get braces
Then you're going to have to live with them.

Now that that's settled, go with Cure's advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mintxx

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I had braces for 2 years in college. It's completely worth it in the medium to long term. My teeth are now killer.
 
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