"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have crowded teeth... any advice?

donjuanapprentice01

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I think one of the reasons for my lack of success with girls is the fact that I have terribly crowded teeth... My parents never bothered taking me to an Orthodontist when I was young, and now I'm paying for it. Seriously, it's bad I look like a vampire when I smile and I'm very concious of it.

Anyone else have this problem? I refuse to get braces, so I guess my only option is to have all my teeth pulled and go with false teeth, but dental implants are expensive as hell.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She_feelin_Me

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Whats wrong with braces? I rather have braces then getting false teeth.
 

Cure

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Firstly, its a confidence thing, so long as you keep them clean and freash, your teeth are only a problem if you have issues with them/lack confidence as a result. Its doubtfull anyone but you sees your teeth as anything to shout about or comment on, so dont worry!

Secondly, on the braces topic, it may well be worth a few years of traintracks for a lifetime of nicly fixed teeth.
Failing that, you can now get a type of clear plastic brace which fits over the top of your teeth and is almost completly invisible unless someone knows its there. Go and see an orthodontist and see what he/she reccomends.

Cure
 

speed dawg

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donjuanapprentice01 said:
I refuse to get braces
Then you're going to have to live with them.

Now that that's settled, go with Cure's advice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mintxx

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I had braces for 2 years in college. It's completely worth it in the medium to long term. My teeth are now killer.
 
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