"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have compiled The Book of Pook!

Gubby

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I know half of you seem to take pleasure in bringing pook down, so I'd like to say that I made this entirely for my own self because I wanted to read it. So if you guys want me to email you a copy, message me. If you don't like Pook, save it.

I searched through all the Pook posts and put all the best [all] into an ebook. You really have got to read this stuff guys, it's not like his stuff is all so revolutionary but it leaves it all so much clearer. Like I'd like to think I'd write if I'd gathered a few years more experience and read the entire works of Homer and Virgil. Oh yeah, and I drew a cover art just because I felt artistically inclined...
So that's it I guess.

Can you guys at Sosuave put the ebook up there with the DJB? Hell, the book of Shuma Gora got in and it's the most long winded pretentious drivel ever to exist... Is he reading this? *:Dgets ready for verbal battle:D*
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gubby, PM me. I'll get the eBook existing on the web as long as there is no copyrighted/stolen from privatized knowledge/liabilities.
 

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Cool. It'll be nice to re-read some of his old stuff. Pook was my first "dating guru" or mentor. Looking forward to the link up, so I don't have to hunt down old posts.

If SoSuave had free time, I would suggest archiving the best posters on here in a PDF format like mASF did for famous posters: TD, Mystery, David Shade, Juggler and Ross. Is it a time consuming process?

I could think of other great posters besides Pook. Anti-Dump, Senor Fingers, etc. I guess that's why we have the bible so we can get the best of the best in one big book-like format. I know it's a bad time to ask too since the board just got revamped, but thanks for your effort guys! ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL... a nuthugger.

But yeah, can I get that ebook? :D
 

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Looking for a copy of the Book of Pook

Gubby said:
So if you guys want me to email you a copy, message me.
Can someone e-mail me a copy please?

Dr.Chris
 

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Pook Sucks C0ck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hope that is not covered in the book!

God_of_getting_layed said:
Pook Sucks C0ck
I hope that is not covered in the book!

I still want a copy...
 

Panda 2000

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Why was Gunwitch never featured in the bible? I think his material was some of the best here at sosuave.
 
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