"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok drinking is awesome but you are drinking for the wrong reasons (i.e. not socalizing and having fun).

Second, ritalin is terrible (I actually took Focalin, which is the same active ingredient only refined for more potency and less side effects... in theory, really it's just way more potent). The crash you get from it is absolutely brutal. I never get depressed but when I came down off ritalin I always felt as if the world was ending. In college that was a pain in the ass for me since I needed it for class but hated the side effects and was continually debating which would harm me more. Honestly, I don't take my medicine anymore because I found an occupation where having a short attention span isn't a big deal, and in fact a positive - in general I feel much better than I did when I was forced to use that stuff.

Cocaine makes the side effects of ritalin and focalin... even adderall (although adderall is much milder, less effective, and in my opinion a very over-rated and crappy drug) look ridiculous. The comedown from those drugs is probably 3 times worse than coke. Which is funny because you have students popping pills all day looking down upon people who do cocaine recreationally, when in fact the kids who are popping pills have the serious problem. Just food for thought.
 
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