I Have Anger Problems/I Don't Know What To Do

[hithard]

Ten... you talked a lot of $hite and basically ended up doing what everyone told you to do all those years ago. Even now you are laying the boot into the very foundations that brought you to where you are.
I doubt anywhere else would have preped you to where you needed to be.

But the best thing you and everyone else should do is get off this site and dont read it, or post everyday.
Goodluck and keep moving forward

 

[Morpheus]

Thanks for the Aaron Clarey reference. It's immediately apparent that he's had a considerable influence on your views. It's good to get to see this further background to your standpoint that you've spent a lot of thought and time arguing for.

Good luck!

 

[Tenacity]

Ten... you talked a lot of $hite and basically ended up doing what everyone told you to do all those years ago. Even now you are laying the boot into the very foundations that brought you to where you are.
I doubt anywhere else would have preped you to where you needed to be.

But the best thing you and everyone else should do is get off this site and dont read it, or post everyday.
Goodluck and keep moving forward

Yeah I understand, but when I came here I was just dealing with a LOT of internal anger issues man. Over time, those anger issues have decreased.

I have always wondered why "The Manosphere" wasn't this online frat of guys who network with each other, and instead is just this hidden, secret, anonymous place where men post at under random usernames.

And I'm starting to see that the reason the Manosphere isn't this online frat of guys who network with each other, is because the Manosphere seems to just be a place to RANT. It's a place where guys go who are angry, pissed off, bitter, etc., over shyt women have done to them and they come here to talk shyt.

That's all I'm seeing this as right now. It's why I'm the only guy (other than Ruler) who has a picture on here give or take, it's because these guys are only here to TALK SHYT about women, RANT, or create some cartoon character lifestyle of being ALPHA when they know god damn well they aren't living said lifestyle in real life.

I will still post here from time to time, but the Manosphere is a toxic place for a man to be.

 

[hithard]

I will still post here from time to time, but the Manosphere is a toxic place for a man to be.

This is exactly true.
The big problem in the manosphere is the bitterness. I knew it was going to infect your thinking early on and mentioned it. I also knew that you would infect the next lot and slow their progress.
As soon as I saw the above post I was relieved. The reality is: that the longest you need to stay on these forums(after arriving with a problem) is 2-3 months. Anything longer then that and you are avoiding reality, depressed or wasting time. It's ok to shoot the breeze. But it's easy to get stuck.
Reading too much here does more damage then good. Coming here once in a while, will keep you grounded.

When you found a social circle full of good people and took focus off of women. That's the point you needed to step away from theorizing on here, to getting on with life. I was always pi$$ed you were wasting time.

Just a word of caution:
You are the exact candidate that bpd and crazies go for. And guaranteed they will come for you soon to test you. So keep an eye out.
Goodluck

 

[hithard]

I don't like any type of social media, posting information or playing "long distance friends".
PUA's in Australia were raped by the media and their pictures and online posts exposed. Their jobs and businesses suffered.
I think you are crazy to put a picture up. Stuff on the net stays on the net.

 

[BeExcellent]

Good luck @Tenacity.

If I ever get up your way drinks are on me.

Keep going, keep growing!!

Cheers, -BE