davidsonj73
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What chess books would you recommend that I read next?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have an 1100 rating in chess and want to improve
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BackInTheGame78
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9-3enthusiast
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I have no idea what my own rating is, I've signed up at Chess.com and have been playing some of the bots over the last couple of days.
I find I can beat the 1000 to 1300 bots pretty reliably - Those in the 1500/1600/1700 range are more of a challenge.
Tried against a 2500 and got soundly thumped.
I find I can beat the 1000 to 1300 bots pretty reliably - Those in the 1500/1600/1700 range are more of a challenge.
Tried against a 2500 and got soundly thumped.
MatureDJ
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Levi "GothamChess" Rozman has a great book for the current generation:
Here's his great YouTube Channel:
Here's his great YouTube Channel:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.