"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a very strange dichotomy when it comes to dating

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I don't think Dave would have any trouble answering that question. Every thread he starts is full of him talking about how great is, and what a great catch he is, over and over. You really want to see the list again?

It's an interesting question in general though. I'd be curious to know how different Sosuavers would answer it.
I think if he stopped worrying about that list and started getting his dicc whet he would get game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't think Dave would have any trouble answering that question. Every thread he starts is full of him talking about how great is, and what a great catch he is, over and over. You really want to see the list again?
Allot of people on here have debunked the "uniqueness" of the list. There are other guys that have similar portfolios that he does. He's not even a millionaire. Sure, he's not broke, unsuccessful, homeless, in jail, or in bad shape. But what does he really have that's different to another successful person? What makes him better than say richardthefrog or some other wealthy guy that can't get with that type of elusive women?
 

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I've always had intense passion to be great at everything
Do you think that's really a passion or do you think that's a coping strategy for a fragile ego? Passions are things like, playing the piano, art, making furniture, writing, playing a particular sport.

If you want to be the best at everything, that ties in well with why you are so scared to be rejected by hot women. Being rejected shatters your self image of being perfect/the best.

Those men that can approach a hot woman, get rejected and not be bothered are the men that have a healthy opinion of themselves which is independent of what anyone else thinks of them.
 

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Allot of people on here have debunked the "uniqueness" of the list. There are other guys that have similar portfolios that he does. He's not even a millionaire. Sure, he's not broke, unsuccessful, homeless, in jail, or in bad shape. But what does he really have that's different to another successful person? What makes him better than say richardthefrog or some other wealthy guy that can't get with that type of elusive women?
But he has skin that will never age, everyone tells him how beautiful he is, and what a great personality he has. Well, everyone but the girls he really wants, if such a creature actually even exists.

But I don't think any guy would be able to come up with a list of truly "unique" characteristics. There are only so many qualities that are attractive, and most people will have a mix of them, at least. There will always be someone who is better looking than you, or richer than you, or more famous than you, or higher status than you. There are seven billion people on the planet, I think you would be lacking humility if you were to claim you were truly unique or special. All you can do is be the best you that you can be, and for dating purposes hope that is attractive.

By the way, I'm going to say his name now three times, just to see if he will appear. I'd like to know what happened with that Lambo:
Richard the frog, Richard the frog, Richard the frog.
Just don't hold me accountable if he shows up :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are only so many qualities that are attractive, and most people will have a mix of them, at least. There will always be someone who is better looking than you, or richer than you, or more famous than you, or higher status than you.
Well, as long as one is good enough for the right type of girl to at least settle with?

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There are seven billion people on the planet, I think you would be lacking humility if you were to claim you were truly unique or special. All you can do is be the best you that you can be, and for dating purposes hope that is attractive.
What about what A.S. is talking about game as salesmanship. You can't just be high-value, but you have to be communicating and selling your value. In this way even if you are not inherently high value, but can make a woman feel like she is with someone of such and press the right buttons and get what you want from her, then you are doing better than if you have high-value and can't do anything about it, like the OP. This sounds like a textbook case scenario where game counts more than SMV/LMS. If it was LMS/SMV only then bigdave17 should be sailing with the type of girl he wants.

zekko said:
By the way, I'm going to say his name now three times, just to see if he will appear. I'd like to know what happened with that Lambo:
Richard the frog, Richard the frog, Richard the frog.
Just don't hold me accountable if he shows up :)
His unique hobby is seeing escorts. At least he's not being rejected by them too.
 

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Well, as long as one is good enough for the right type of girl to at least settle with?



What about what A.S. is talking about game as salesmanship. You can't just be high-value, but you have to be communicating and selling your value. In this way even if you are not inherently high value, but can make a woman feel like she is with someone of such and press the right buttons and get what you want from her, then you are doing better than if you have high-value and can't do anything about it, like the OP. This sounds like a textbook case scenario where game counts more than SMV/LMS. If it was LMS/SMV only then bigdave17 should be sailing with the type of girl he wants.



His unique hobby is seeing escorts. At least he's not being rejected by them too.
With the Lambo I hope he transitioned to "not for pay".
 
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