I have a very interesting and complicated problem.

[RT-TT]

Ok, so Ive known this girl for about a year now. I met her when she had just broken up with her boyfriend cause he cheated on her. Well before I stopped being a wuss and asked her out she got back together with her boyfriend. Though she has dropped hints that she wishes she would have gone out with me instead. So we became friends and after a while best friends. I consider her my best friend in the whole world and she feels the same about me. Now for the past 6 months I have not been worried about having a relationship cause pretty much my life sucked. Race car blew up, I lost my drivers license, my job, my family life sucked, i had no idea what i was gonna do with my future and I had just ended a 2 year relationship. But lately I have really become attracted to my best friend. Ive started to notice she is everything I want in a girl. She is beautifull, te most inteligent person I have ever met, succefull(shes gonna be a phycatrist) and Im always happy around her. Here is where it gets complicated. She is still going oput with my friend, but he is a total **** to her. She is always complaing to me about him. I belive the only reason she is still with him is because since she was homeschooled until college and he was the first and only boyfriend shes ever had. Now that I actually got my life back under control. I want a relationship and she is PERFECT. What the hell do I do?

 

[El MonoLoco]

Go find a different girl....leave your boys girl alone...

 

[RT-TT]

I wish it were that simple, but this "boy" of mine is a complete douchebag and you dont just "find" a girl like this.

 

[El MonoLoco]

Well if you don't care about your friend then by all means give it a go......but,


Don't come crying back here about how she broke your heart and he beat you up... an now you have no friends and no women.


We don't want to hear that after you did what we told you not to do...



Trust me if you concentrate on other women right now the answer to your question will show itself.

 

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

Originally posted by RT-TT
I wish it were that simple, but this "boy" of mine is a complete douchebag and you dont just "find" a girl like this.

Sounds like a case of one-itis to me...

 

[KontrollerX]

Go after her and get rid of your scumbag friend.

Don't listen to all this oneitis b.s and the don't go for her crap.

If you don't at least try you will regret it forever and thats worse than anything.

 

[uzio]

Sounds like a case of one-itis to me...

Ditto.

Next the *****.

 

[Rovalier]

Does anyone ever read the DJ Bible anymore? I swear the admins should BOLD it and jack up the size of the link on the top right.

This is a blalant case of oneitis. So what if she is complaining to you?

Guess what?

If she was so god damn intelligent she would have broke up with him a long time ago. But no, that is not the case.

TOUGH ****.

Maybe she is smart after all, she is using you as a cry pillow for intellectual stimulation while she has 12 hour tantric sex sessions with this guy. Think of the most dirtiest and most unholy positions and acts of sexual intercourse possible. Now picture her doing it with this guy with gratuitous pleasure.

Stop wasting your time and enegy and find another girl. Every second you waste could be one for you to persue and find another girl who might be 10 times better. NEXT.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by RT-TT
Ok, so Ive known this girl for about a year now. I met her when she had just broken up with her boyfriend cause he cheated on her. Well before I stopped being a wuss and asked her out she got back together with her boyfriend. Though she has dropped hints that she wishes she would have gone out with me instead. So we became friends and after a while best friends. I consider her my best friend in the whole world and she feels the same about me. Now for the past 6 months I have not been worried about having a relationship cause pretty much my life sucked. Race car blew up, I lost my drivers license, my job, my family life sucked, i had no idea what i was gonna do with my future and I had just ended a 2 year relationship. But lately I have really become attracted to my best friend. Ive started to notice she is everything I want in a girl. She is beautifull, te most inteligent person I have ever met, succefull(shes gonna be a phycatrist) and Im always happy around her. Here is where it gets complicated. She is still going oput with my friend, but he is a total **** to her. She is always complaing to me about him. I belive the only reason she is still with him is because since she was homeschooled until college and he was the first and only boyfriend shes ever had. Now that I actually got my life back under control. I want a relationship and she is PERFECT. What the hell do I do?

You are the equivalent of a male girlfriend to her. Let it die, give it a rest.