I have a theory on escaping the "friendzone"

[Comic]

If there is such a thing...

What if a man in the friendzone changes his personality, his attraction methods, and even his appearance. While making all of this clear to the women that has LJBF. I'm planning on taking a shot at simply this. Rather than going no contact, dropping her and fvcking 10 other women, or digging myself deeper into a whole hoping for a miracle that someday she'll realize how amazing I am. Has anyone that's ever been in the friendzone tried simply just changing the way you act and appear around her?

 

[Jaylan]

Improve yourself FOR YOU. Not for some broad. Keep it moving to the next broad dude.

 

[Comic]

Improve yourself FOR YOU. Not for some broad. Keep it moving to the next broad dude.

Believe me, I am changing for my better good. But in all honesty do not believe in such a thing as a friendzone. I believe if you change your ways, especially around the person you friendzoned by and interested in, you can help her create attraction in you.

 

[Zodiac]

Honestly man don't put that p***y on a pedestal. You might want her now but when you get out there and appreciate life for what it is instead of focusing on women as a centerpiece of why you do things, you'll realize that old comment "There are always more fish in the sea" comment isn't just a comment to help guys get over a heart stomping but rather stating a fact in there are more fish out there for your rod to reel in. Seriously man just better yourself but changing a part about yourself that YOU don't like because YOU want to then watch as the other domino's fall down around you getting what you ultimately wanted in the first place.

I escaped the friend zone by doing exactly what I recommend for you. I lost weight in a big way, revamped my entire "game" by getting a job dealing with customers thus forcing me to maintain conversations with strangers and increasing my skills overall by taking out women to bars or diners after a night of fun by trying out some approaches I thought up. This gave me self confidence when I succeeded and when it didn't it helped me figure out what I needed to tweak.

After changing my life for the better I ran into a girl that LJBF'd me and I blew her off at first. Now why did I do that? Well I told her after running into her that I was busy in my day to day life but on my next day off or when my schedule opened up I would be more than happy to catch up with an old friend. This absolutely drove her up a wall and it went from me pining over her and looking up at the pedestal she use to sit upon to me sitting on my throne with her trying to get a sliver of attention from me.

Twas nice man I wont lie and all happened from me just moving on after I realized I got LJBF'd because that is the way women say "I'm not interested in you" instead of directly saying it to avoid hurting your feelings outright and instead having that happen when they are most likely not around.

 

[TheJazz]

When you're friendzoned with a chick, she's not interested. She sees you not as you are, but as either one of her girl friends or even her (yechh!) brother. She's not going to be "getting with" any of those. It's over. Just find another man, it's not that hard.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Well you could do that.. But You would have to be NC to very minimal contact for about a year or two before you do that.. And even then you're just going to be bull****ting yourself and she'll probably pick up on your tricks after a week or two.. If you just changed your personality one day, she's going to pick up on it, she's gonna know what's up, and just think of you as a desperate loser.

Not trying to talk down your chances.. It's just how women think. I've hooked up with two girls who friendzoned me once upon a time, but I made drastic changes in myself and my philosophy in the last year which is what you have to do to not let that moment be completely soul crushing.

 

[bigneil]

When a girl says LJBF after you've had sex with her, you almost always get another shot so just go NC and wait 14 to 30 days or so. Improving can help here but can be seen as "changing for her".

If she says LJBF before you have sex, then it's extremely rare that you get her. If you do, it's years in the future. Improving can help you to replace but not repair this one.

 

[Comic]

When a girl says LJBF after you've had sex with her, you almost always get another shot so just go NC and wait 14 to 30 days or so. Improving can help here but can be seen as "changing for her".

If she says LJBF before you have sex, then it's extremely rare that you get her. If you do, it's years in the future. Improving can help you to replace but not repair this one.

Well I'm a teenager and around my town girls dont fvck that easily. She wanted to become FWB with me and wanted to lose her vcard to me. We were even at the point where we were practically having phone sex when I was away for a week every night for a while. Then when i came back were supposed to have real sex. We're under the sheets naked and something was going to happen, but I got ****-blocked. I wont get into that but I was in a terrible mood the rest of the night. She noticed. Ever since that night which was about 2-3 weeks ago she hasn't been interested in me sexually. She dropped the whole FWB thing a week later and a couple of days when I tried to advance us to the point of where were seeing eachother she said im her bestfriend and she only sees me that way. I just dont understand how everything can be going so smoothly and good and just drop like that. There has to be a way to get back to where I was at 3 weeks ago...

 

[Zodiac]

Well I'm a teenager and around my town girls dont fvck that easily. She wanted to become FWB with me and wanted to lose her vcard to me. We were even at the point where we were practically having phone sex when I was away for a week every night for a while. Then when i came back were supposed to have real sex. We're under the sheets naked and something was going to happen, but I got ****-blocked. I wont get into that but I was in a terrible mood the rest of the night. She noticed. Ever since that night which was about 2-3 weeks ago she hasn't been interested in me sexually. She dropped the whole FWB thing a week later and a couple of days when I tried to advance us to the point of where were seeing eachother she said im her bestfriend and she only sees me that way. I just dont understand how everything can be going so smoothly and good and just drop like that. There has to be a way to get back to where I was at 3 weeks ago...

Only way is a time machine. It blew up in your face man. You have to move on.

 

[bigneil]

This happens. Women back out at the last minute. Don't let her see you get emotional. Her interest level won't disappear overnight but will start to fade if you don't handle things perfectly from now on. Try NC for 2 weeks.