I have a theory as to why so many harridans complain about men

[MatureDJ]

This harridan expresses how she laments that men "want to be the woman, want to be chased":

My theory is basically that the party that is more in demand gets chased. Obviously, when women are at their peak desirability as young, attractive fertile women, they get chased - whereas when they age into harridans, they are not in demand, but it is decent men that are in demand, especially decent men that don't care to chase younger women. They lament that the men their age are "no longer chivalrous", but fail to realize that men only want to be chivalrous with young women.

I know I have absolutely no desire to get with a harridan of my age, but rather are only interested in women half my age.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I think she's just venting. I'd like to believe that women are socially intelligent enough to understand that female SMV craters once they crest 35. They absolutely hate it, but they know it's true. No one likes to be invisible to the opposite sex. But she only has herself to blame for the fact hat she's single in her 40's. She picked the road that led her there.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@MatureDJ "My theory is basically that the party that is more in demand gets chased"

And if you're not "being chased", the time has come to start identifying what makes you ugly, not just to women but damned near everyone, then modifying those traits into more attractive ones. Given that, in some respects anyway, it's easier for us men to become more handsome than it is for ugly women to become beautiful

, there's no excuse for NOT doing so

 

[Solomon]

As a man in his 40s, I can tell you my experience as a guy who has never been married and has dated around a lot. The older I get the less energy I put into women. After you deal with women enough, similar experiences, the b.s. you realize sometimes your "peace" is far more important than getting a "piece."

By that age, most men and women have already gone through a few relationships. Some are divorced, some have had plenty of situationships or hookups, and so on.
Unlike others on this site, I still date them if they come correct(40-year-old women). But you notice with quite a few of them, not all but many, they tend to be bitter, jaded, or delusional or dealing with major trauma. The amount of trauma dumps I have dealt with since covid has been insane.


This girl is still attractive for 40(in the video), but I am pretty sure the men she is going after have options that look just as good as her, or younger, or both. The game truly does change once a man becomes self-aware and carries himself with self-respect. Now you add in that he has options, and the girl who used to get fawned over is now left on read or does not get the same attention she used to get.


There is a caveat to this, too. A guy who does not have options, who just got divorced and has kids to raise, has limited time and energy to date. Plus, your sex drive starts to wane depending on the guy, and a lot of men, even blue-pilled guys, do not want to deal with a demanding woman and would rather have some peace.

I got a buddy who is not red-pilled. He got married and divorced during COVID. That divorce really woke him up when it comes to female nature. He never had issues getting women, but he is 41 now and still dates. As soon as a woman shows a red flag, heck even a yellow one he is out.

 

[BadBoy89]

I'd like to believe that women are socially intelligent enough to understand that female SMV craters once they crest 35.

35? I would almost say 28.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

As a man in his 40s, I can tell you my experience as a guy who has never been married and has dated around a lot. The older I get the less energy I put into women. After you deal with women enough, similar experiences, the b.s. you realize sometimes your "peace" is far more important than getting a "piece."

By that age, most men and women have already gone through a few relationships. Some are divorced, some have had plenty of situationships or hookups, and so on.
Unlike others on this site, I still date them if they come correct(40-year-old women). But you notice with quite a few of them, not all but many, they tend to be bitter, jaded, or delusional or dealing with major trauma. The amount of trauma dumps I have dealt with since covid has been insane.


This girl is still attractive for 40(in the video), but I am pretty sure the men she is going after have options that look just as good as her, or younger, or both. The game truly does change once a man becomes self-aware and carries himself with self-respect. Now you add in that he has options, and the girl who used to get fawned over is now left on read or does not get the same attention she used to get.


There is a caveat to this, too. A guy who does not have options, who just got divorced and has kids to raise, has limited time and energy to date. Plus, your sex drive starts to wane depending on the guy, and a lot of men, even blue-pilled guys, do not want to deal with a demanding woman and would rather have some peace.

I got a buddy who is not red-pilled. He got married and divorced during COVID. That divorce really woke him up when it comes to female nature. He never had issues getting women, but he is 41 now and still dates. As soon as a woman shows a red flag, heck even a yellow one he is out.

Do we unwittingly know each other? LOL Could just as easily have been me.

About OP, there is some truth to that. Their crazy comes out full blast when they see you are with anyone else. A younger lady jyst finds another guy after she posts a tiktok about you from a car.

 

[Solomon]

Do we unwittingly know each other? LOL Could just as easily have been me.

About OP, there is some truth to that. Their crazy comes out full blast when they see you are with anyone else. A younger lady jyst finds another guy after she posts a tiktok about you from a car.

We are in the same range, so it makes sense that some of us have similar experiences.
When we were younger we would deal with a lot of women's b.s. due to high test and in hopes of getting laid
The older you get the more you deal with your bigger HEAD and start to weigh the PROS and CONS
If the CONS outweighs the PROS it's just logical to move accordingly

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Solomon "The older you get the more you deal with your bigger HEAD and start to weigh the PROS and CONS
If the CONS outweighs the PROS it's just logical to move accordingly"

Yeah, embracing MANHOOD, as opposed to operating like an 11 year old boy. Ideally, we start weighing the pros and cons of EVERYONE we bring into our lives, along with those who've been in it for awhile