Chamber36 said:
I notice that even when I'm not smiling people might smile at me and say hi. I don't really make an effort to smile at people, even at work. I think it makes me come off a bit chumpy.
I also notice that sometimes when I've got my serious face on, and I see a cute girl who can cheer me up in 1 second, it's a good feeling. The girl has to be the one to cheer up the man, and vice versa. So just have your face reflecting your inner state. Be open.
Another time I went into a club because this guy owed me money. I was just done kickboxing and I heard he was in the club, because I had dropped by his house and talked to his dad. Anyway there was adrenaline and anger pumping through my veins, and I remember people all looking at me like: 'whoa'. I saw a hot blonde and said hi to her, and I think she really appreciated that I said hi to her although I was in such a tense 'killer' state of mind.
That 'killer' look will probably do better for you than a smile. Think of Charlie Sheen.
Wtffffffffffffff?
Let me see if I get this straight:
The girl has to be the one to cheer up the man, and vice versa.
Don't agree at all. If you believe that you need to rely on a girl for a good attitude, there are some underlying problems that stem further than your facial expressions.
Do people really blieve that a scowl--especially the forced ones--are attractive? let's forget about getting girls for a second, and imagine what we'd think if we saw someone forcibly making unhappy looks. Personally I can see usually see through the charade, and I don't have a desire to talk to them because people who excersise forced scowls look stupid to me.
An indifferent face is one thing, but putting in an effort to look tough is so insecure. When I see guys doing that (man I see a lot) I make sure to laugh right in their face. I don't get how you think a scowl is cool? It's the gayest **** ever in my opinion.
Clint Eastwood, James Bond, all the idols you can think of,
smiled, from time to time. If you work on your **** and take care of yourself, people will flock to you whether you have a deformed face or not.
Anyway there was adrenaline and anger pumping through my veins, and I remember people all looking at me like: 'whoa'. I saw a hot blonde and said hi to her, and I think she really appreciated that I said hi to her although I was in such a tense 'killer' state of mind.
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