"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a second date with White Girl!!!!

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Thanks to Super Jinja and this forum, I have a second date with white girl. I am super excited. I did not think this was possible. You guys are the best.

White girls have always been #1 in my books. The way their hair feels so smooth, how they all have different hair colours, the way their eyes look so mesmerizing (blue, grey). The way they speak, whats not to love about them.

Ever since I was a little kid I always had a crush on white girls and I knew I was truly attracted to them more than other girls.

I went to coffee with this chick and she was slow to reply to me texts but now she has agreed to a second date. Wow. I did not think she was interested but apparently theres white women willing to go out with me more than once!!

White women are so precious, truly, you white guys are so lucky to be in the presence of such magnificent creatures!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I suspect you are really Naughty Ninja's trolling id. It's not hard to put two and two together.

Question is why?
 

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I had in less than month two dates with white girls (from online dating )
the sad thing the instant they notice I am not White (from my accent because they cant tell from my face ) they turned off , I couldnt get a second date with them .
they cant see husband or bf material in me when I am not from their race .
 

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Speculator E said:
I suspect you are really Naughty Ninja's trolling id. It's not hard to put two and two together.

Question is why?

You may just be on to something. Keep up the good work Sherlock and be sure to give us a detailed update on your findings.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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evan12 said:
I had in less than month two dates with white girls (from online dating )
the sad thing the instant they notice I am not White (from my accent because they cant tell from my face ) they turned off , I couldnt get a second date with them .
they cant see husband or bf material in me when I am not from their race .
The white girl is seeing me for a second date and I am not her race.
I don't think it matters if she is willing to go out with you on the first date.

What race are you?
 

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I am middle eastern , I think it depend on age too , girls I am seeing are in late twenties and they look to settle with some one

I don't think it matters if she is willing to go out with you on the first date.
they go out with me on the first date because they think I am white , if I write in my profile I am not white even that first date will not come , I tried and know that
 

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evan12 said:
I am middle eastern , I think it depend on age too , girls I am seeing are in late twenties and they look to settle with some one


they go out with me on the first date because they think I am white , if I write in my profile I am not white even that first date will not come , I tried and know that
Are you from California?

Theres lots of great looking Persian girls there, I think Persian women are beautiful.

Have you tried Middle Eastern girls? They seem to stick with Middle Eastern guys.

I know quite a few Middle Eastern guys dating White girls right now. One is dating an HB8 Italian girl.
 

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Race doesn't matter. I'm of Middle Eastern descent, and had no problems with white women. Or black women. Or hispanic women. Never dated a Persian, which is what I am. Never had any Middle Eastern women at all. Where I used to live was predominately white, and there were no problems. None here, either. Good liking white girls, too. It all comes back to the basic attraction principles, such as looks, appearance, social skills, etc.

I was born in the US, though. No accent, clear English, fit in with society well. An American. Just Middle Eastern by skin color, which women don't mind. They like the brown tan, and are intrigued by the family / culture / heritage. All positives, but you need the looks and what not to get in that door. Doesn't matter what or who you are. Women (or men) don't determine attractiveness by race. Just a cop out on the rejected parties' side.
 
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At this rate I'll be posting on loveshack.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you from California?

Theres lots of great looking Persian girls there, I think Persian women are beautiful.
American women seem to be more tolerating about that , when I was in US I found alot of couple from different races asian/white , hispanic /white , black/asian , etc
but here in Canada ,when I was in small city being non white immigrant was the big dealer breaker for girls to consider you bf material (some of them admitted that )
now here in Toronto , they are more flexible at least in STR , but they still prefer white men for long term , although I saw a lot of blondes having kids from black men , it seem black men is sexy for women same way blonde women sexy for us (men ) .
and yes I have dated Persian girls , they are far more open , especially when I was in small city , that was the only choice, I also dated Blonde HB9 and discovered later she is American live in Canada , that is why I think American is more open to date from other races
Race doesn't matter. I'm of Middle Eastern descent, and had no problems with white women
I think because you are in US , and you born here so you are good in English , for me I have hard time building good sentences and I talk English like 2 year kid , and that a big turn off to women
 

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Evan: Yes, that is probably why. If you're literally foreign, its gonna be very hard. There's some cute Spanish girls I know... Really nice and otherwise good catches, but they don't speak English. Or very little. Just doesn't work, if you're looking for long-term.
 
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Evan: Yes, that is probably why. If you're literally foreign, its gonna be very hard. There's some cute Spanish girls I know... Really nice and otherwise good catches, but they don't speak English. Or very little. Just doesn't work, if you're looking for long-term.
Then learn their language.

Spanish is set to become your country's number one spoken language in less than fifty years, so you best get learning. Also learn Mandarin too (for when the Chinese take over the World).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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another date with a white chick , same scenario she turned off in the moment she heard my accent.
date ended cold and I messaged her after 4 days she didn't reply
so chess-ed her number :)
now I am talking with a Black woman she look so eager compare to online dating women , she is not my type but at least she have big boobs and ass lol , also she is fun person
 

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evan12 said:
another date with a white chick , same scenario she turned off in the moment she heard my accent.
date ended cold and I messaged her after 4 days she didn't reply
so chess-ed her number :)
now I am talking with a Black woman she look so eager compare to online dating women , she is not my type but at least she have big boobs and ass lol , also she is fun person

How did you know it was the accent? The expression on her face changed as soon as she heard you speak? What did you guys talk about?
 

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How did you know it was the accent? The expression on her face changed as soon as she heard you speak? What did you guys talk about?

They most likely didn't talk at all. He lost her at Hello.

I'd suggest Barry White vocal courses. Oooooh baby.
 

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Then learn their language.

Spanish is set to become your country's number one spoken language in less than fifty years, so you best get learning. Also learn Mandarin too (for when the Chinese take over the World).
That's a little excessive. I'm not learning **** to get a woman, or make friends. The only time I run into, or associate with these people is at work. Not interested in anything beyond that. Keep the workplace strictly business.

Most foreigners do understand English, and can speak enough of it to keep a conversation going... All you need, really. If not, oh well. Guess neither of us will be talking to each other much. They don't understand me; I don't understand them.
 

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How did you know it was the accent? The expression on her face changed as soon as she heard you speak? What did you guys talk about?
we was texting about 2 weeks before we met in person , and when she came to the cafe she went to bathroom to put more makeup, lol , she was happy , until I start talking then the glow in her eyes gone , and her voice go low , I felt she disappointed , she also told me she play sports that not contain touching because she hate touching so I took it as indication that she don't want any touching today .
I told her I am Iraqi , she told me she was trying to find out where I am from but couldn't we talked about 45 min , and in the final she told me it is look like news is not always true and Iraqi poeple is good poeple(WooW ) , this seem to be indication that she tried to rationalize her acceptance to me so I thought may be there will be a second day , but the thing that bother me she was check her phone every time to check the "Jays" game , so I told her if she is tired or some thin she said she is tired so I told her ok lets go , and every one go even without saying a clear bye ,because I was a little angry

ah and she told me she is finding a hard time finding a job , so I told her I thought all beautiful women find job easly , she smiled with her self as a first genuine smile , I was able to go from there to some sexual things , but I didn't
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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