"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have a question ..
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Ive seen PLANTY of guys that are late 30's, still trying to find women to marry. Go visit dating website .. Some are successful, some are well off and some are very good looking. Why are they having such a hard time finding women .. ? Just look at mature dj forum .. these guys are living in major denial ...Originally posted by wind20mph
well, do you want to grow old single? LOL
You cannot avoid growing old, unless you die young. So what's your problem with that?
LOL
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Please ..
The only reason why anyone would lose their confidence is if they choose to let it go. Once a man reaches 30, he doesn't suddenly become the elephant man. They probably only start to lose their appeal when they are almost hitting 50. If you're a man, in your forties, signs of aging is there and you wanna only hook up with tight girls below 26, then you must accept the fact that you probably ain't gonna get any. Age has nothing to do with it. Standards and how well a person keeps his image and confidence matters more. Better for people to look at those things first before looking at the number of years they had.Originally posted by PoS
btw ... my uncle's been married twice. He's not an afc by any means. All he said was i better find someone while im young because once u pass your prime, you will lose your looks and confidence. Older = less confidence .. I mean, ill be thinking twice about approaching 20 - 24 yr olds when im 30. Do u really think that any girl who's in her early 20's will choose 30 year old over young, good looking 22 yr old kid ?
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Um .. ive seen guys that are in their early 30's that look like 45 yr old. People age faster now days due to stress and diets. How do u keep your image "younger" when u look twice of their age ? Its good to have positive attitude but some people are just delusional.Originally posted by JonJack
The only reason why anyone would lose their confidence is if they choose to let it go. Once a man reaches 30, he doesn't suddenly become the elephant man. They probably only start to lose their appeal when they are almost hitting 50. If you're a man, in your forties, signs of aging is there and you wanna only hook up with tight girls below 26, then you must accept the fact that you probably ain't gonna get any. Age has nothing to do with it. Standards and how well a person keeps his image and confidence matters more. Better for people to look at those things first before looking at the number of years they had.
A person can keep their image "young" by doing stuff. Go out. Excercise. Do the stuff young people do. If they let themselves fall into the whole "I'm getting too old for this" trap when they're not even hitting 50, then they better expect lonely days ahead. Of course all this isn't a certainty. There are always exceptions. I wouldn't think people looking 10 years over their age is a common sight. But generally, if a man acts young, he'll feel young and people around him will notice that energy that he exudes. If a person acts old, then he'll feel old and people around him will think he's older than he really is.Originally posted by PoS
Um .. ive seen guys that are in their early 30's that look like 45 yr old. People age faster now days due to stress and diets. How do u keep your image "younger" when u look twice of their age ? Its good to have positive attitude but some people are just delusional.
The only reason why the younger generation avoid the older generation is because the young ones feel that they are unable to connect with the old ones. They probably believe that all of them are not very fun to hang out with. That they won't be able to show them a good time. Or maybe they feel that these older guys may become like a father figure and like always try and protect and control her. Maybe the older guys should try and eliminate some of these assumptions before pursuing a younger girl.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your uncle is totally off the mark. I'm 46 but luckily still look young looking for my age. They're are plenty of divorced and single women available on the market. I have more luck now than in my 20's.Originally posted by PoS
My uncle was telling me the other day that more u get older, it is harder to find women, unless you're super rich and successful... do u guys agree with his theory?
Don't ever make the mistake of staying with someone because you feel you're getting old. It is a disaster in the making.