"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I Have A Question. Can Somebody Help?!

tito1915_pr

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First Of All, I'm New Here And I'm From Puerto Rico.

Here's My Situation...

There's A Girl At School That I Like. I Find Her To Be The Perfect Woman, She Has Great Feelings, And When It Comes To A Boyfriend, She's Great(from The ''cover'' That I've Seen). And I Like Her, She Doesn't Know And I Think She Is Not Intrested Because Of How Sometimes She Treats Me, I Dont Think That She Thinks That I'm The Best Guy Around. I Don't Know What To Do! I'm Afraid To Mess It Up! Can U Guys Help In Some Way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DavenJuan

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first let me say that its pretty weird how you Capitolized every single word in your post...moving on....

you need to give alil more background
 

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I Did'nt Capitalize Them, I Wrote All Of It With Caps Lock And They Ended Up Like That, And Second, What Do You Mean Bout More Background? what are the things tha i need toput to be more specific?
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Why not post us a conversation you have with her?
But from how you put it, it sounds like she doesn't really like you. You can change this though with a lot of effort and a little luck.

Tell us a little about yourself, what do you like to do. Also, how are you with the ladies?
 

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I have normal conversations with her like friends do, she's really controversial, i really don't know how she sees me cause she doesn't show it, that's why i don't know what to do. As for me with the ladies, i used to have girls behind me, cause i was diferent back then and i knew how to treat with them. that all changed, whith my last girlfriend a long time ago (i'll be honest, 3 years almost 4), she did me a lot of things and i got out of that relationship and decided to have some time alone, so i guess i lost my way with girls cause i've never been the same, i'm not sayin i was the best ''ladies man'' but i knew how to defend myself with them.that all changed, now i find myself asking for advice in something that i would have known what to do 4 years ago, but don't even know what to do now. still, that is most of my background in the girl topic.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tito1915_pr said:
I have normal conversations with her like friends do,
exactly you have a conversation like friends do, you need to be sexual man, kino, ****y and funny read the HS bible, the DJ bible is a bit heavy going for a newbie in my opinion, honestly im not going to hide the truth, from an outsider looking in it looks like you're in the friend zone, you just need to grab your balls become the man and you will hook up with her ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tito1915_pr

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i've considered everybody's advice, and i think i know what i'm gonna do.
 

tito1915_pr

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i know but it's really difficult to explain it, but i know, i'm gonna start over(if u know what i mean)
 
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