"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a problem, which is a first.

JSH

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Originally posted by Zod
...Why would you want to go to a party to drink and smoke weed? Especially at 15 years old...

If your mom doesn't want you to party it's for a good reason, my parents are down to letting me go to these parties. They know I respect myself well enough that I wont drink / smoke weed.

I know this is off topic, but I find it unfortunate that kids (and I'm only 1 year older than you) have fun by smoking weed and underage drinking.
There is nothing wrong with underage drinking, just like drinking, as long as you are responsible with it. I am 18, in England I am allowed to drink, in most parts of the good old USA I am not. Strange, but, does this mean that when I am in America, my drink will somehow affect me differently (apart from fines/jail sentances). NO. Alcohol has to be treated responsibily, which is why there is an age restriction on it. However, if you do so, i can see no objections to drinking it. In england, you can drink from the age of 14 with a meal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Patrick124
do me a favor, don't smoke weed. I did ti for 3.5 years, and you know what? I had a blast. I stopped and guess what? I wna tmy 3.5 years back. I can't blame the smoking for my ****ty grades, my mild depression or anything really. But it DID make me less motivated. and trust me, until you're a senior, you need all the motivation you can get.

GO to parties n get nuts thoguh man. drink till you can't see straight. But don't kiss no fatties. lol.
And when u eventually do kiss that ugly girl that hops on your lap when you're half-asleep, drunk and her tits look humongous, jsut remember in the morning never to talk to her again. :)

Yep us Virginia folks rock!

And Zod dude...chill. Drinking is not all that bad...

You want to try things and have fun...

Basically what familyguyfan said.

And to tell you the truth smoking pot isn't that great.

Remember too much of anything is bad.
 

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Like Void said, it's all in moderation. Don't be afraid to take a hit of that joint of bong being passed around the party, it won't kill you. Drinking and driving is where it gets deadly, definately no winning combination. We've all seen and heard of it, and it's no fun carrying your best buddy's casket down the aisle, or the opposite. You never know what the idiot driving your ride is thinking. Pot Smoking is a real downer. It's a crutch that zaps any motivation. Take it from me, I've tried it too many times to tell you wrong. You know you have a problem when you are dependant on a substance to have fun and enhance your personality, you're not like this, but a lot of people are. Partying is something you should experience, as a social life is important, just don't get a girl pregnant and mess up your future. It happens in a blink of an eye.
 
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