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Don Juan
So I have been kinda seeing this girl, and I say kinda because after a month we still havnt made out, partially because she is pretty conservative and partially because I havnt pushed the issue hard enough, even though I did try a few times.
Just a little warning, its a little long and probably has a lot of irrelivent information but I was just typing as things came to my mind.
Little background.
Met the girl through a friend at a Christian event. That night we exchanged numbers....and honestly I don't remember what happen the two weeks following this because I have a terrible memory, so lets fastward to the time I do remember. Went on two dinner dates and hung out a few times, one was watching a Florida football game, another was at my bestfriends 21st and a few other get togethers.
Being that this girl is pretty conservative, she really believes that the guy should be calling/texting first and setting everything up, which I find completly rediculous, so thats probably a factor into this meeting tomorrow because I don't text/call her everyday because I work and go to school and I have sh.it to do.
Lets go back to my bestfriends 21st, since im sure this is where it all stemmed from (the reason why she wants to talk), which happen to be this friday that just pasted. The night started out pretty good, I had a really bad day at work and so I hit the keg pretty good at the very start. Since I had a bad day at work and their were a good amount of work friends there that had all heard what happened they all wanted me to tell them what happen through my side, and instead of telling them all at once they kept coming to me in small groups which was really disrupting my hang out time with my girl. Everytime I told each group the story my girl would laugh while I told it, because even though it was a bad day at work the story was pretty funny..kinda. So after all these people left me alone my girl went to sit on the couch and I went and got us some beer. When I came back she was talking to this guy that sat down next to her, I handed her her drink and she kept talking to the guy, so I was like, ok, and I went and talked to my friends since she seemed more interested in talking to this guy then me....
(To be honest, now that I look back on it, its probably because I was spending too much time with my workfriends telling them all the story and not enough alone time with her, so this was probably her way of getting back at me.)
...we eventually did start talking and I pretended this guy didn't even exist, after talking for a bit I mentioned that we should go get in the hot tub. So we go put our swim suits on and when I walk outside to get in the hot tub there is this dude is again talking to my date in the hot tub. I didn't even go to the hot tub at this point, after making eye contact with my date I just stared at her for a second or two and then the guy she was talking to, then I went and chilled with some people i've never met. We were pretty drunk at this point and we got on the topic of what percent we all thought that this guy in the hot tub had pee'd in the hot tub, while we are throwing precentages out and laughing pretty hard (since we were pretty drunk) my date comes over to join us, we fill her in on the topic and she just laughs and throws her guess into the mix. After a couple minutes of talking and laughing on the subject....she goes back into the hot tub with the guy...at this point I started to get a little bit upset and admittingly jealous. So I went over and joined her and this guy. After a couple minutes of small talk this guy gets out to go smoke a cigarette which was freaking disgusting. So its just me and my date and I pull her close to me and we are pretty much all over eachother (without making out). The guy comes back, more small talk, he leaves, I pull her close again, blah blah blah. Her friend (female) comes picks her up and thats pretty much the end of that night between the two of us.
The next day (Saturday), from my assuption from talking to her earlier in the week she made it seem like she would be busy all day with work and a few other things. I just stayed at my bestfriends all day and watched football with the guys and didn't text her all day cause she would be busy. Later at night (10pm) she sends me a text saying, "Christopher why have you not texted me all day? That makes a girl ask some questions haha". Long story short she says she only went to work because she felt sick.
So now we are on Sunday. I text her while I was at work cause it was a pretty slow day. We made small talk and eventually her text started getting shorter and shorter so I just stop texting.
Now today, after I get home from work she texts me saying that "We need to talk". I asked about what and she said "just some stuff". I offered that we meet someplace and talked and she said not tonight because she had to study.
So now we are where we should have been about (what feels like) 20 minutes ago, haha, sorry for the long story. We are gonna meet up tomorrow after our classes and talk about "Just some stuff".
I pretty much know whats coming as do most of you. My question is, what should I say in responce.
Just a little warning, its a little long and probably has a lot of irrelivent information but I was just typing as things came to my mind.
Little background.
Met the girl through a friend at a Christian event. That night we exchanged numbers....and honestly I don't remember what happen the two weeks following this because I have a terrible memory, so lets fastward to the time I do remember. Went on two dinner dates and hung out a few times, one was watching a Florida football game, another was at my bestfriends 21st and a few other get togethers.
Being that this girl is pretty conservative, she really believes that the guy should be calling/texting first and setting everything up, which I find completly rediculous, so thats probably a factor into this meeting tomorrow because I don't text/call her everyday because I work and go to school and I have sh.it to do.
Lets go back to my bestfriends 21st, since im sure this is where it all stemmed from (the reason why she wants to talk), which happen to be this friday that just pasted. The night started out pretty good, I had a really bad day at work and so I hit the keg pretty good at the very start. Since I had a bad day at work and their were a good amount of work friends there that had all heard what happened they all wanted me to tell them what happen through my side, and instead of telling them all at once they kept coming to me in small groups which was really disrupting my hang out time with my girl. Everytime I told each group the story my girl would laugh while I told it, because even though it was a bad day at work the story was pretty funny..kinda. So after all these people left me alone my girl went to sit on the couch and I went and got us some beer. When I came back she was talking to this guy that sat down next to her, I handed her her drink and she kept talking to the guy, so I was like, ok, and I went and talked to my friends since she seemed more interested in talking to this guy then me....
(To be honest, now that I look back on it, its probably because I was spending too much time with my workfriends telling them all the story and not enough alone time with her, so this was probably her way of getting back at me.)
...we eventually did start talking and I pretended this guy didn't even exist, after talking for a bit I mentioned that we should go get in the hot tub. So we go put our swim suits on and when I walk outside to get in the hot tub there is this dude is again talking to my date in the hot tub. I didn't even go to the hot tub at this point, after making eye contact with my date I just stared at her for a second or two and then the guy she was talking to, then I went and chilled with some people i've never met. We were pretty drunk at this point and we got on the topic of what percent we all thought that this guy in the hot tub had pee'd in the hot tub, while we are throwing precentages out and laughing pretty hard (since we were pretty drunk) my date comes over to join us, we fill her in on the topic and she just laughs and throws her guess into the mix. After a couple minutes of talking and laughing on the subject....she goes back into the hot tub with the guy...at this point I started to get a little bit upset and admittingly jealous. So I went over and joined her and this guy. After a couple minutes of small talk this guy gets out to go smoke a cigarette which was freaking disgusting. So its just me and my date and I pull her close to me and we are pretty much all over eachother (without making out). The guy comes back, more small talk, he leaves, I pull her close again, blah blah blah. Her friend (female) comes picks her up and thats pretty much the end of that night between the two of us.
The next day (Saturday), from my assuption from talking to her earlier in the week she made it seem like she would be busy all day with work and a few other things. I just stayed at my bestfriends all day and watched football with the guys and didn't text her all day cause she would be busy. Later at night (10pm) she sends me a text saying, "Christopher why have you not texted me all day? That makes a girl ask some questions haha". Long story short she says she only went to work because she felt sick.
So now we are on Sunday. I text her while I was at work cause it was a pretty slow day. We made small talk and eventually her text started getting shorter and shorter so I just stop texting.
Now today, after I get home from work she texts me saying that "We need to talk". I asked about what and she said "just some stuff". I offered that we meet someplace and talked and she said not tonight because she had to study.
So now we are where we should have been about (what feels like) 20 minutes ago, haha, sorry for the long story. We are gonna meet up tomorrow after our classes and talk about "Just some stuff".
I pretty much know whats coming as do most of you. My question is, what should I say in responce.
