"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a lil dilema

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Ok so I like these two girls both are hb 9.0. The thing is that I like the girl that I have a slim chance with, more than the other one. I could prob just call the other one and ask her out right now and she would prob say yes. My problem is that If i ask the girl that I like more she would prob tell the other girl that I asked her out before I asked the other one. And if I just go for the girl I like less I would prob regret that I did not ask the one that I like more.... Any suggestions..

I know this is prob the worst post and prob doesnt make any sence... Im kinda in a hurry to work.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dont ask either one out, just ask them to hang out with you/go on a date (sepratly of course) so you can date both of them and take it from there.
 

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Lol, dont worry, go for the one that will bring you more happiness.

But play them both at the same time, invite them to come and chill with you (not a date). Btw are they best m8s.
 

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note they are not best friends but they share a lot of friends. Ill just try both of them like you guys said.
 
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