"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

I have a HB "friend" who I havent seen for years wanting to hang out

V

Vladimir Coochinoff

New Member
Joined
Jul 3, 2008
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
There is this girl I used to know and we were just friends. She had a serious boyfriend.

I haven't talked to her in a couple years. All of a sudden, she emails me wanting to hang out. I wasn't easy and told her maybe I could find some time. She kept hounding me and wanted to see me so finally I told her to pick me up this weekend and she is going to!

I hanged out with her once years ago but I didn't make a move because she had a serious boyfriend. I sense that she is on the rebound and I could really score this weekend.

Any tips on how to bang a girl this girl who is just a friend but I get the sense she wants it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

C

Columbia

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
82
Reaction score
0
I don't really see why you're so excited about being some chick's rebound guy until some better man comes along for her. That smacks of desperation and no dignity to me. You were available for her before, she remembers it, and years later you're still available for her.

I don't go for quick lays, so I can't really offer you any advice on that. I encourage you to think about this before diving in though. You're doing exactly what she wants/expects.
 
S

scottfall

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2007
Messages
155
Reaction score
9
Columbia said:
I don't really see why you're so excited about being some chick's rebound guy until some better man comes along for her. That smacks of desperation and no dignity to me. You were available for her before, she remembers it, and years later you're still available for her.

I don't go for quick lays, so I can't really offer you any advice on that. I encourage you to think about this before diving in though. You're doing exactly what she wants/expects.
Click to expand...
So hes supposed to not see her because its what she wants/expects? I say you hang out with her and see how far you can get. What else do you have to lose?
 
C

Columbia

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
82
Reaction score
0
scottfall said:
So hes supposed to not see her because its what she wants/expects?
Click to expand...
If he wanted to see her he should have done so a long time ago, not now on her terms. If she hadn't come to him looking for someone to keep her ego up, they wouldn't be hanging out, simple as that.

I know he didn't give in right away, but he is still being played by this girl.

Some guys are happy enough with that, and I hope he gets what he wants, but I wouldn't touch this girl with my 10 foot pole :p
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top