"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have a gut feeling my gf is cheating on me
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PantyWhisperer
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I think he means her friend is a mudshark, although I've never heard the term before, but I'm guessing that means she dates black guys? This friend also thinks you are an azzhole? Then you're toast. Her friend has probably turned her out and into the joy of riding BBC. For our British friends, that is not a broadcasting network, lol.
She doesn't want to screw after spending so much time away from you and when it does, the sex sucks? There's your sign buddy. Walk away
She doesn't want to screw after spending so much time away from you and when it does, the sex sucks? There's your sign buddy. Walk away
MrWood
Master Don Juan
I see no hint of this
unless "little" is "friend", then I see that, and will check myself
dk1990S111
Master Don Juan
Yes, big and little sister pairs in the sorority
PantyWhisperer
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I think he just omitted a word. It was like playing Where's Waldo for me to figure it out. Otherwise, if his girl likes banging thugs and he's still chasing her, well then, he's a full on creampie eating cuck.
lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
"oh girl.. you never rode a black one yet? (wink) Let little sister show you a thing... or two"
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I'll be honest with you. Your woman is fcking every single guy she hangs out with and you are just her emotional tampon. You are only a substitute for when she has nobody .
You are also telling to yourself that you have a gf meanwhile you are only beating your meat .
I've been where you are now and I'll tell you the same as everybody in here. Ldrs never work and they are not worth it. We are not living eternally to say " ok , 2-3 years away from my main woman is nothing"
Youth never stays forever . You are at your peak , make use of that. If ypu don't want to listen to our advise then don't ask for it.
You are also telling to yourself that you have a gf meanwhile you are only beating your meat .
I've been where you are now and I'll tell you the same as everybody in here. Ldrs never work and they are not worth it. We are not living eternally to say " ok , 2-3 years away from my main woman is nothing"
Youth never stays forever . You are at your peak , make use of that. If ypu don't want to listen to our advise then don't ask for it.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
Ive tried LDR, tried dating women back when I was in college, take the advice of these men here. Check my post history, I only chime in when I have the exact experience of the OP. This is one of those times. +1 of move on from this thot, things WONT get any better.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
D@mn, she's getting pounded out. Throws him some scraps because she does like the emotional connection and trust with you. With the players she's boning it's for the excitement and rush of blood.