"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have a fear of NOT gaming. A fear of going FROM abundance INTO scarcity. What to do?

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I have recently decided to pursue a Masters degree and inevitable PhD in clinical psychology. in doing so, I have booked my GRE test for December, and now have to start studying extensively to get a competitive score for grad school applications. Because I now have to stay in side most of the week to study I have to stop gaming as regularly as I have been these past 5 months.

I fear that I will fall into scarcity, and I fear that my abundance will diminish with the decrease in gaming women. How do I counter act this fear. This is a new fear I have developed for sure. Something that I cannot allow to occupy my mind and determine my actions, because I must carve a career pathway and cannot spend my waking minutes gaming all the time.

I decided to go out only twice a week to game. And also when I am out and about doing things I will game casually.

But how do I retain abundance WITHOUT a constant flow of women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have recently decided to pursue a Masters degree and inevitable PhD in clinical psychology. in doing so, I have booked my GRE test for December, and now have to start studying extensively to get a competitive score for grad school applications. Because I now have to stay in side most of the week to study I have to stop gaming as regularly as I have been these past 5 months.

I fear that I will fall into scarcity, and I fear that my abundance will diminish with the decrease in gaming women. How do I counter act this fear. This is a new fear I have developed for sure. Something that I cannot allow to occupy my mind and determine my actions, because I must carve a career pathway and cannot spend my waking minutes gaming all the time.

I decided to go out only twice a week to game. And also when I am out and about doing things I will game casually.

But how do I retain abundance WITHOUT a constant flow of women?
I don't know why you are complaining here, going out 2 times a week is plenty enough and you could use OLD to make sure you get laid at least once a week.

Dude you're doing a PhD in clinical psychology, this is a winners path, you'll be a doctor. You wont even have to game anymore, just saying that you're doing a PhD and they'll fall for you. Good luck for your carreer and you already figured it out. 2 times a week is more than enough to practice your game and your PhD alone is enough to boost your confidence and your SMV by a lot
 

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Find other girls who are studying for the same test and invite them to study with you. Post signs in campus hallways if you need to: "Studying for Blah blah test and looking for study partners". Post your email address for them to contact you. Obviously you will ignore any guys who contact you and only respond to the women. Facebook/Google their names to see how hot they are before agreeing to meet.

Try to recruit several new girls until you have a solid 10-20 girls you can study with. Invite different girls to study with you based on availability and how hot they are. After you finish a study session, get to know them a little and maybe try to have sex with them. Rinse and repeat.

Win-win.
 

John Constantine

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Find other girls who are studying for the same test and invite them to study with you. Post signs in campus hallways if you need to: "Studying for Blah blah test and looking for study partners". Post your email address for them to contact you. Obviously you will ignore any guys who contact you and only respond to the women. Facebook/Google their names to see how hot they are before agreeing to meet.

Try to recruit several new girls until you have a solid 10-20 girls you can study with. Invite different girls to study with you based on availability and how hot they are. After you finish a study session, get to know them a little and maybe try to have sex with them. Rinse and repeat.

Win-win.
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