"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been using a canned line on pof that has worked really well for me. So I thought hell I will try it out on facebook and it works! I had a routine I did on pof that I used after the opener to where I could get there number fast but that routine won't work on facebook since it's not a dating website. Here is the opener:

Hey! I thought you were pretty and I wanted to see what you were like. After all, there's more to people than looks. So maybe there's something unique about you. Am I right? :)

So they have been responding with something like "of course I am! :)" So how how do I respond to this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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adamw5963

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I agree. I just use it bc I've been getting responses from hb8+ girls but I just don't know where to go after the opener.
 

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If their response is "of course I am" why can't you say to them they never answered the question. Anybody could say they are unique, but if they can't list anything about themselves that is what does that really say about them.
 

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i've never used facebook game but i think it would be a lot harder. most peopl just use it to attention ***** between friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dadmonson

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Packers2010 said:
i've never used facebook game but i think it would be a lot harder. most peopl just use it to attention ***** between friends.
People hook up all the time because of facebook. Facebook is the reason a lot of affairs are started.
 

Harry Wilmington

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I would use similar tacticts on POF. When they respond with "of course I am," the next logical thing to say is, "really? So what makes you unique (aside from just your looks, of course)?" This makes them have to prove themselves to u. From ther, you ask a couple more "prove yourself" questions, then say "well, you sound like you might be some fun. What's say you and I meet up for coffee sometime this week - would Tuesday or Thursday around 5 or 6 work better for you?" Yes, its that simple.
 

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Harry my man you give good feedback, but to say things are always "that simple" with girls because you are awesome with picking them up and scoring is condensing. Guys have problems; girls react differently, they threaten, they abuse, they fight, they talk trash to guys who already have delicate egos with girls.

It's like a billionaire telling someone having trouble making ends meet to "go to the bank and tell them you want to borrow 10 million, its that simple." There are always 101 factors into play.

"well, you sound like you might be some fun. What's say you and I meet up for coffee sometime this week - would Tuesday or Thursday around 5 or 6 work better for you?" Yes, its that simple.
I've said this before to a girl in an email. 1 hour later her husband left a message on my phone saying he was flying across to see me and teach me a lesson, as he knew my full name and number. I had to tell the girl sorry I asked her out and flirted with her and in no way I wanted sex with her.

Just be careful out there with girls. Unless she's giving you sex or money, nothing is what it seems.
 
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