"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a "date" tonight with someone who LJBFed me before

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Kev07 said:
she actually sometimes tells me something about him and i'll say something like, it doesn't matter, or i don't care and she'll just move on to other things and not mention him
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I've always dealt with the boyfriend or ex-boyfriend issue like so: "I'm interested in you, not your boyfriend." You don't necessarily have to say that. That's just an attitude for the most part. Keeps you honest and genuinely interested in the girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kev07 said:
she actually told me she didn't want to get into relation ships right now.
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That is a classic line because its full of sh1t. In my AFC days I have met women who gave me that line and the following week they met a guy who changed all that.

This woman gave you the line "Lets just be friends" which means that the only way you are going to hit that is if there aren't any better prospects around while she wallow in her misery from her previous relatioship. Chris Rock once said that male friends to women are like a d1ck in a glass jar - "In case of an emergency break glass". What does that mean to you? A very small window of oppertuinty to get her in the right time and moment before she meet a new man whom she never had to reject before.

That is why your chances of hooking up with her remains quite low.You have better chances of fvcking a woman whom you just met then a woman who LJBF you a while back.

I have a rule about women. Any woman in the past whom you knew and didn't hook up with or hooked up with and it was done and over with, don't chase her again.Concentrate on now and go sarge women you never talked too before. You will be in a much better position and shape instead of digging up an old fossil and hoping it will come alive again.
 
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