"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a date in a few days in a city I’m not very familiar with

The_Reaper

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The girl isn’t from my country, and is somewhat a high energy type so she’d be a tourist here. I want to show her a good time.

Do you think it’s better to just keep it simple – go for strolls, find a nice coffee shop, go to a decent pub – or should I make an effort to plan something out, like the zoo, or a comedy show, or something like that?
I’m leaning towards keeping it simple.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if she's high energy a club wouldn't be a bad call...club+drinks+high energy woman= you gettin some poontang'
 

The_Reaper

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GettinLuckyAintLuck said:
if she's high energy a club wouldn't be a bad call...club+drinks+high energy woman= you gettin some poontang'
Ironically she hates clubs. She's more of a hippy-type girl, loves to talk, travel, move about, etc.

I've already slept with her, about 6 months ago, when she visited my country.
 
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