"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i have a crazy idea but i think it's way too afc

tsmith2334

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here's the deal... every now and then i save AIM conversations too look back on and see what i did right and wrong. i have a nice little archive.

one conversation i have is from summer of 05. the girl IMed me first, saying she was "thinking of me"... we talked a little bit, it was cute.

now i was thinking of contacting the girl (who i still talk to) and being like, whoa... you'll never believe me this... i was deleting old files and found this... when she asks what it is i'll be like yea back in the day i used to think you were kind of cute and i saved this conversation because i thought it was funny... etc.

question: would there be any cool nostaligia to it that a girl might think is cute? or is it way too AFC/ stalkerish?

i'm thinking the latter, and i'm probably not gonna do it, unless i'm advised otherwise
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thatfeel21

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what does your gut say? we both already know the answer...
 

DJsomeday

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don't do it dude, you might think it's romantic or cool but i mean let me put it this way:

My afc part says: Cool that would make him look sweet!

My mature part says: It's not gonna work UNLESS (and even then) she already feels attracted to you then she'll prolly ignore it or sumthing in other words it won't make sh!t to make her feel more attracted to you.
 

Bunk 040

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Do it. Learn on your own. The hoe can't kill you, if it work it work. If it dont. it dont.
 

sam3083

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Good advice, Bunk. Defenitely do it tsmith.

We learn from experiences.

Book smarts = other peoples experiences (sosuave)
Street smarts = our experiences (you sending that chick the conversation)

You'll learn way more, and be way better off by making your own mistakes (or successes). Always 'trust the gut', and go with your thoughts over anyone elses
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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